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Re: Place to cry

Post by amyfairy » Fri Aug 06, 2010 7:57 pm

i don't cry real-tears anymore but i really feel that i want to
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it just builds up and i binge/purge instead. fucking bulimia, i hate you.
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Re: Place to cry

Post by capricorn » Fri Aug 06, 2010 10:52 pm

I don't want to lose youuuu
:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
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Re: Place to cry

Post by Licentia Poetica » Mon Aug 09, 2010 1:15 pm

:bawl:
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Re: Place to cry

Post by Butterfly. » Mon Aug 09, 2010 3:02 pm

:cry: *sniff sniff* in relief

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Re: Place to cry

Post by loveLights » Wed Aug 11, 2010 5:52 am

I miss M. I am so very protective of Ch. I want to be good, but I can't stand it anymore. I want a divorce W.
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Re: Place to cry

Post by loveLights » Wed Aug 11, 2010 5:53 am

The world was supposed to stop when he died
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Re: Place to cry

Post by capricorn » Thu Aug 12, 2010 1:39 am

I wish sosososososososo much that you would have just TOLD ME. So I could have been there for you
:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
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"I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain."
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Re: Place to cry

Post by vampirelover » Sat Aug 21, 2010 8:54 pm

:blfrwn: :blfrwn: :bsad: :bsad: :bsad:
I had enough of mum being ill , i want my boyfriends hugs long distance relationships harder than i though i miss him and it hurts.
I want to be back in the boarding house with my friends
not at home as an adult trying to get a job and uni im too young for this
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Re: Place to cry

Post by capricorn » Sun Aug 22, 2010 9:51 pm

Damn. :cry:
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"I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain."
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Re: Place to cry

Post by fragmentedxdream » Mon Aug 23, 2010 2:50 am

I hate crying...it makes me feel so weak. All my life I hid my tears away and in the past year I started actually showing how I truly feel about things. I hate the feeling of crying and showing my true emotions...I'm supposed to be the good girl who is always nice to everyone no matter what and now i'm not. I feel so lost because of this :(
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Re: Place to cry

Post by Licentia Poetica » Mon Aug 23, 2010 1:20 pm

:cry:
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Re: Place to cry

Post by breathing » Wed Aug 25, 2010 5:50 am

Why?!

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Re: Place to cry

Post by Stawberry_Lollipops » Sun Aug 29, 2010 1:42 pm

:( I wish I was able to cry. I don't know why I can't cry. I can cry when I'm angry but I can't cry when I'm sad. I want to cry, I just want to let it all out.

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Re: Place to cry

Post by Butterfly. » Mon Aug 30, 2010 2:38 pm

I feel like crying... but I just can't at the moment. Typical.
:blfrwn: :bsad: :1cries:
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Re: Place to cry

Post by Isis » Wed Sep 01, 2010 3:50 am

i want to cry but i can't :blfrwn: i don't want to lose you but i can't live this way any more
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Re: Place to cry

Post by badgirl22 » Fri Sep 03, 2010 1:40 am

I think I need to cry. Problem is I can't. I tryed at the therapist office but couldn't do it. I suck. I keep thinking I want to die. I keep having death thoughts. I keep feeling sucky. the therapist thinks I am depressed. I don't think I am. Maybe I am just kidding myself.

crying never got me feeling better but I wish I could do it anyway.
I hate feeling like this...
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Re: Place to cry

Post by Stawberry_Lollipops » Mon Sep 06, 2010 1:49 pm

:cry:
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Re: Place to cry

Post by capricorn » Fri Sep 10, 2010 10:36 pm

:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
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Re: Place to cry

Post by Isis » Mon Sep 20, 2010 10:55 pm

i wish i could cry but it wouldn't help anyway.
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Re: Place to cry

Post by Butterfly. » Sun Oct 03, 2010 12:06 pm

Maybe crying would help things...

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