I'm proud of myself today because....

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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by stripysocks4christ » Wed Mar 31, 2010 8:31 pm

yay!!!

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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by strider 151 » Wed Mar 31, 2010 8:32 pm

feel sick now though lol :-?
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by stripysocks4christ » Wed Mar 31, 2010 9:12 pm

meh.... know the feeling.

im proud of myself because i havnt SIed yet, and i dont think i will. This is a step in my progress, and means im getting better.

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"Love does not make the world go round... It’s what makes the ride worth while"
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"I only lied so I didn't have to see the tears of disappointment in your eyes"
"I don't want the world to see me, cos I don't think that they'd understand..."

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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Jamas » Wed Apr 07, 2010 4:13 am

Today I am proud of myself because I kept a positive attitude. :D
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Eisa » Wed Apr 07, 2010 4:50 am

...I haven't SI-ed or restricted.

I'm retroactively proud of myself for yesterday when I PM'ed a moderator on another forum about a person whose posts were bothering me and making me feel unsafe. :redstar:
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by SplinteredGirl » Wed Apr 07, 2010 9:35 am

i felt if i was alone i may SI again, and thus, here i am at the boyfriends
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Dorky&Weird2 » Fri Apr 09, 2010 9:31 am

I'm proud of myself today because I threw away my tools!
:1hug: & PM's are ok with me!
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Joseph » Sat Apr 10, 2010 1:33 am

I have continued to keep my commitment to myself about not acting out
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Dorky&Weird2 » Sun Apr 11, 2010 6:42 am

I'm proud of myself today because I belived in myself
:1hug: & PM's are ok with me!
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by Annybelly » Mon Apr 12, 2010 1:28 pm

Just a quick note to say..
on page 1 i noticed that someone had the idea of congratulating the person above u before saying why u were proud..
and i thought that was a really neat idea..
it seems to have died out tho..

*decides to do her bit towards starting it up again*

well done for believing in yourself Dorky :thup:
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by stripysocks4christ » Thu Apr 15, 2010 8:28 pm

yay for starting that up again annabel :)

im proud of myself cos i havnt restricted. even when i felt sick, i made sure i ate a sensible amount.
"Love does not make the world go round... It’s what makes the ride worth while"
"Good friends lift you up when your wings forget to fly"

"Let Go and Let God"
"God will never let us fall without a plan on how to save us"
"For I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength" – Philippians 4:13

"I only lied so I didn't have to see the tears of disappointment in your eyes"
"I don't want the world to see me, cos I don't think that they'd understand..."

xx Kitti xx

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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by SplinteredGirl » Thu Apr 15, 2010 8:33 pm

i didnt SI last night
i got a good sleep
im dressed and not hanging out in my pjs.
i plan to go for a walk
i feel more at ease then yesterday
i plan to see the bf, and maybe tell him how i was feeling yesterday and how close i came to SI
im going to try to find ways to communicate better about my feelings with a select few friends..
i may make art today
calling a friend when i felt like i was falling into a hole of not talking to nayone for a long while
even though it was yesterday i stayed on bus till my urges went down a bit
its sunny!


these are alot of not yets but hey, its something
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by half/hearted » Sat May 01, 2010 5:52 pm

I felt down in the dumps and I cheered myself up even though I was alone in the house.
Please be gentle with me.

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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by capricorn » Tue May 04, 2010 9:48 pm

^Nicely done :osmile:

I didn't have a panic attack.
And reassured myself about my chemistry exam nerves. Rather than freaking out.
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by ForgottenMemories » Tue May 11, 2010 6:20 am

Good job. :osmile:

I'm proud of myself because I've been happy all day.
You can have peace or you can have freedom. Don't ever count on having both at once.
There's a drive in me that won't allow me to do certain things that are easy.
This was freedom. Losing all hope was freedom.
I just don't want to die without a few scars.
One of the hardest things in life is having words in your heart that you can't utter.
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by caged bird » Tue May 11, 2010 4:40 pm

I've made a really good start on my HUGE list of things to do :D
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by capricorn » Tue May 11, 2010 9:07 pm

^ahhh, I haven't! lawl. *hides list*

Because ...
I distracted myself rather than letting things get worse.
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by snowangel_03 » Tue May 11, 2010 10:38 pm

Well done capricorn :)

I'm proud of myself today because....
  • ..I didn't cut despite being urgey for a good couple hours, and it would have been over something silly and I didn't give in despite the tears and emotional wreck that I was feeling like at the time.
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by gail » Thu May 13, 2010 9:50 am

i didt sh as soon as i got up even thou its all thats on my mind, am managing not to so far :cowave:
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Re: I'm proud of myself today because....

Post by flyingturtle » Sat May 15, 2010 4:23 am

^^ good job. :3

I didn't cut today. I babysat for 6 hours. I didn't fall asleep in class today. I beasted my math final.
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