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Re: Place to cry

Post by stripysocks4christ » Thu Jul 23, 2009 5:18 pm

hope you guys are ok..

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Re: Place to cry

Post by one out of none » Thu Jul 23, 2009 7:28 pm

Stripeysocks, I hope you don't feel like you have to take responsibility (probably not the right word) for everyone, because that would be too much of a burden for any one person. I know I really appreciate support when it comes, and I really appreciate the post, but I know that you and other people on bus are struggling too. So remember you have to take care of you too! :1hug:
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Re: Place to cry

Post by stripysocks4christ » Thu Jul 23, 2009 8:14 pm

thanx. sometimes i feel like as i cant help myself, i should do everything i possibly can to help everyone else. that way only i feel upset, rubbish, etc etc... so i take unnessessery (spelling?) responsibility. i kinda get a bit OTT bout it.... the offer still stands that anyone who needs it can use my PM box. that will alwasys stand, but maybe i just need to handle my life differently..

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"Good friends lift you up when your wings forget to fly"

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"I don't want the world to see me, cos I don't think that they'd understand..."

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Re: Place to cry

Post by jadestarwalking » Fri Jul 24, 2009 5:34 am

*cries* I wish I knew what to do.........
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Re: Place to cry

Post by chibihera » Fri Jul 24, 2009 6:11 am

I can't take it anymore. I've spent over half the day crying. Things are just too much. My family forgot my birthday as did my friends. I got the flu for my birthday last weekend though. Not that anyone cared. Today my grandparents who I live with to help them out wont stop yelling at me... well my grandma wont my granddad is giving me the silent treatment. He asked me to help him put up a shelf and as soon as he asked the phone rang. I said give me a second and I'll help and I answered the phone. It was my aunt asking about my grandma's birthday so I had to answer her. Plus they are coming to visit tomorrow so I had to figure out sleeping arrangements with her. I went to help my grandfather (litterally 5 minutes later) and he just shoved past me and now hasn't spoken to me in over 8 hours. My gandmother just keeps yelling at me calling me worthless and useless. This hurts more than anything I could ever do to myself.... :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
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Re: Place to cry

Post by jadestarwalking » Wed Jul 29, 2009 4:25 am

*crawls into a corner and cries*


I hate myself.....
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Re: Place to cry

Post by Stefani140 » Mon Aug 03, 2009 8:15 pm

:1cries: my feelings are not dismissable because you think your right.
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Re: Place to cry

Post by jadestarwalking » Tue Aug 04, 2009 1:40 am

*cries from pain*

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Re: Place to cry

Post by Artemisia » Fri Aug 07, 2009 9:03 am

chibihera wrote:I can't take it anymore. I've spent over half the day crying. Things are just too much. My family forgot my birthday as did my friends. I got the flu for my birthday last weekend though. Not that anyone cared. Today my grandparents who I live with to help them out wont stop yelling at me... well my grandma wont my granddad is giving me the silent treatment. He asked me to help him put up a shelf and as soon as he asked the phone rang. I said give me a second and I'll help and I answered the phone. It was my aunt asking about my grandma's birthday so I had to answer her. Plus they are coming to visit tomorrow so I had to figure out sleeping arrangements with her. I went to help my grandfather (litterally 5 minutes later) and he just shoved past me and now hasn't spoken to me in over 8 hours. My gandmother just keeps yelling at me calling me worthless and useless. This hurts more than anything I could ever do to myself.... :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
dude, that's so sad. it makes me want to cry. i'm so sorry. that's really rough. Happy bday for when it was tho - i'm sorry :1soothe: we care about you tho, i promise. pm if u ever need.
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Re: Place to cry

Post by chibihera » Fri Aug 07, 2009 9:13 am

Artemisia thank you for the reply and thanks for making me feel loved. Things seem to be getting better... today atleast lets hope it stays that way. :disco:
. :1flwrs: When I said I'd like a hug, I meant I needed one... :1flwrs:

:1grhug: Hugs are always welcome and usually needed :1hug:

:cyheart: Some times when I say, "Oh I'm fine" I want someone to look me in the eyes and say, "Tell me the truth"... :1soothe:

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can and will one day be mended,
but will always have the scars,
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Re: Place to cry

Post by jadestarwalking » Wed Aug 12, 2009 4:57 am

*cries* I want to be in bed!
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Re: Place to cry

Post by snowangel_03 » Wed Aug 12, 2009 3:07 pm

*wraps you up in big comfy blanket*
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Re: Place to cry

Post by jadestarwalking » Thu Aug 13, 2009 3:27 am

thank you :-)
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Re: Place to cry

Post by Artemisia » Fri Aug 14, 2009 8:51 am

no one, especially not me, gives a damn about me anymore. *sob* now feeling selfish and stoopid. :puppydogeyes: :bawl:
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Re: Place to cry

Post by snowangel_03 » Mon Aug 17, 2009 3:04 am

I can't take this anymore. I hurt inside and coz of sillyness, on the outside too. I just wish things weren't so darn hard
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Re: Place to cry

Post by jadestarwalking » Mon Aug 17, 2009 3:08 am

*cries* my back went out on me
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Re: Place to cry

Post by hiddensorrow883127 » Fri Oct 02, 2009 4:40 am

I want to cry. there is so much wrong. but I can't. I don't have time, space, energy, or a will. or...well, I trained my self not to cry...damn it. (pardon the french there). I want to so badly. but now I'm just rambling. thanks.
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Re: Place to cry

Post by kimmyp303 » Fri Oct 02, 2009 7:06 am

ya i want to cry too, but i dont think i can. i wish i could, i think it would relieve more than cutting does.
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Re: Place to cry

Post by jadestarwalking » Fri Oct 02, 2009 6:59 pm

*cries, tears roll fast down my face, and I continue to a sob*

I really want to od and it is scaring me.
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Re: Place to cry

Post by amyfairy » Fri Oct 02, 2009 11:43 pm

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