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Post by Joseph » Sat May 02, 2009 7:42 pm

I had a serious discussion about a sensitve issue and did not get angry and defensive. OK not too much which is good for me :roll:
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Post by Chey Kizoxie » Sat May 02, 2009 11:17 pm

I went outside for a quick walk to pick up a pop instead of just going to the lobby and back. longer walk and not being afraid

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Post by ThanksALatte » Mon May 04, 2009 12:31 am

i have been safe and productive all day, despite triggers. :)
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Post by amyfairy » Mon May 04, 2009 1:00 pm

i've sorted out travel insurance, i gave my room a much-needed tidy, i did all the washing up and i've got two loads of washing on the go. and then i'm going to go to work! :)

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Post by zombiepeople » Tue May 05, 2009 3:41 am

...I figured out how to get to the mall all by myself...I've only been there dozens of times :roll:
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Post by amyfairy » Tue May 05, 2009 9:58 pm

I ate well, I sorted out a lot of stuff I needed to, I hoovered my room, I took care of myself. :)

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Post by stripysocks4christ » Wed May 06, 2009 4:39 pm

i had a choice to leave my sh days behind and carry on with life or to take the easy way out and sh again. i chose the harder way and i want to be able to say later on here that 'i dun it!!!!'
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Post by amyfairy » Wed May 06, 2009 5:51 pm

-I stood up for myself and got a full refund. whoop!

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Post by Chey Kizoxie » Thu May 07, 2009 12:40 pm

I am being productive today

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Post by Chey Kizoxie » Thu May 07, 2009 12:42 pm

amyfairy wrote:-I stood up for myself and got a full refund. whoop!

that is such a great feeling. If the service or item was wrong we shouldnt feel afraid to speak up but its great when we do. Enjoy the feeling :) Building our own confidence builds positive character 8)

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Post by RG » Fri May 08, 2009 11:13 pm

I finished my exam super early

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Post by zombiepeople » Fri May 08, 2009 11:25 pm

I got up in front of my english class and talked about my essay for 8 minutes and didn't panic :)
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Post by VowsOfSadness » Sat May 09, 2009 2:09 am

i did my essay
*Challenges welcome*
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I woke up this morning, I suddenly realized we're all in this together.

Drop by my place & say hi :)
Ask me anything!!!

I'm fully Recovered!

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Post by Chey Kizoxie » Sat May 09, 2009 2:34 pm

I had breakfast, took my vitamins and im staying well hydrated. (i tend to skip breakfast and not drink enough water)

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Post by guest567 » Fri May 15, 2009 11:39 pm

I did a good job this evening and had a lot of fun in the process. :)

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Post by amyfairy » Fri May 22, 2009 1:59 pm

I've sorted out car insurance despite it taking hours... and it being so bloody expensive! :roll:

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Post by VowsOfSadness » Fri May 22, 2009 2:18 pm

:star: I'm having a positive outlook. I'm saying the things I wanted to tell Ryan because I won't be able to see him for a month :(
*Challenges welcome*
I always love a :lpurpstar:

I woke up this morning, I suddenly realized we're all in this together.

Drop by my place & say hi :)
Ask me anything!!!

I'm fully Recovered!

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Post by amyfairy » Fri May 22, 2009 3:10 pm

I've eaten super-heathily today, including 7 fruits and veggies! :o and lots and lots of water.
I've eaten actual meals - so really the best day of eating in months. :)

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Post by a7xcncangel » Fri May 22, 2009 7:16 pm

I'm calling people to hang out!
Mum: ReineDuSommeil
Sister: waydownsouth, nomad2207, noldo
Brother: sirjnj
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Cousin: DuchessN, jadestarwalking
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Post by vampirelover » Fri May 22, 2009 10:00 pm

i sorted through my room
longest with no slips - 2 years , 6 months
time since last slip : 2 days

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