well im new on here.
this is only my second post.
but i have a question.
someone may have asked this before but like i said im new so i dont know.
but.....
im really wanting to stop cutting... does anyone know any coping methods?
ive heard of running when you feel like cutting. or snapping a rubber band. or using red markers to look like blood. but do you guys know any different ones?
take care all.
coping?
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Hey there! Welcome! Has anyone given you a cow yet? Here ya go: 
Anyway, try reading the Sticky marked Scarily VAST List of Coping Mechanisms. It's got like, three hundred ideas of things you can do depending on your urge. Personally, I like to knit, it keeps my hands and mind busy. I also have a safety box, which is a box I put things in to do when I feel urgy. I have my favorite music burned onto a CD, a bible, some clay, some friendship string, a box of crayons, and I did magazine cutouts decopaged all over it for another distraction.
Good luck finding what works for you!
Love,
Stevie
Anyway, try reading the Sticky marked Scarily VAST List of Coping Mechanisms. It's got like, three hundred ideas of things you can do depending on your urge. Personally, I like to knit, it keeps my hands and mind busy. I also have a safety box, which is a box I put things in to do when I feel urgy. I have my favorite music burned onto a CD, a bible, some clay, some friendship string, a box of crayons, and I did magazine cutouts decopaged all over it for another distraction.
Good luck finding what works for you!
Love,
Stevie
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And it felt like a winter machine that you go through and then you catch your breath and winter starts again, and everyone else was springbound. And when I chose to live, there was no joy, it's just a line I crossed. I wasn't worth the pain my death would cost, so I was not lost or found....But when you live in a world, well, it gets in to who you th ought you'd be. And now I laugh at how the world changed me. I think life chose me after all.
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