last time i wanted to si, i didn't because.......

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by stormycat » Sat Dec 06, 2008 7:26 pm

I looked at my baby and took her for a walk.
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Post by (*Haven*) » Tue Dec 09, 2008 1:40 am

Because I knew that I was better and stronger than that.
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Post by the edge of the world » Tue Dec 09, 2008 2:19 am

because I'm in the hospital.

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Post by catylyx,ver.2 » Sun Dec 14, 2008 3:55 am

i called my best friend and sobbed over the phone to her.
she did the same back.
it worked.
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Post by zombiepeople » Sun Dec 14, 2008 4:30 pm

I used all the coping skills I could think of until I fell asleep :roll: hey...it works
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Post by fire.bird » Mon Dec 15, 2008 12:49 am

because i made myself wait ten minutes. just ten. and sure enough, in ten minutes, i didn't want to anymore. not nearly as badly, anyway.
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Post by travelgirl » Wed Dec 17, 2008 8:56 pm

I didn't have time, I had too much studying left to do and not nearly enough time to do it in. Plus I'm trying really hard to break this cycle.

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Post by lucky_lenny » Thu Dec 18, 2008 1:16 am

Because I need to be able to show other people who I care about that they can do it too.
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Post by Glockenspiel » Fri Dec 19, 2008 5:22 am

Because the scars from the last time were there and I didn't want to add to them.
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Post by Inthebox » Sat Dec 20, 2008 5:37 am

Consequences, consequences, consequences!

My T. would have a fit. I would be caught up in it and not be able to think of much else. More stupid scars to worry about come summer. Cuts on Christmas - I've had enough of that in the past, who wants that?

And my husband in a moment of sweetness and caring - yes , it does happen :wink: , told me that no one, noone wants me to have to cut - him, my T., my family, my aquaintences - no one. He said, some day I will catch up to them and I won't want to either. And I believe he is right.
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Post by SplinteredGirl » Sat Dec 20, 2008 4:34 pm

the last 2 years during the xmas break i didnt give in even though i wanted to so bad. i have to do it again... i wont hide marks during xmas

i already fuked up laast week and have 2 shitty new scars..

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Post by zombiepeople » Sun Dec 21, 2008 5:10 pm

I busted out all the coping skills I could think of until I fell asleep :star:
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Post by fiona » Sun Dec 21, 2008 5:58 pm

- I knew I'd get caught
- I didn't want fresh cuts for xmas

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Post by kalayla » Mon Dec 22, 2008 6:38 pm

i will not go back to it
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Post by 5th section » Tue Dec 23, 2008 5:41 pm

I've already had a slip...if it's going to stay a slip I can't let myself slip any further
...then one day I realised that the people you see in waiting rooms and car parks and on trains are really far more interesting. That they all have whole novels inside them, a fabric of scar tissues, photos and memories. They are comedies and tragedies and - more often - both at the same time.
- Anna James (1984-2007)

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Post by Glockenspiel » Wed Dec 24, 2008 4:08 am

I didn't have anything sharp around.
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Post by Spidey » Wed Dec 24, 2008 6:00 am

i listened to TK instead
there is, in the end, the letting go.
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Post by OneWay » Sat Dec 27, 2008 8:29 am

Last time i wanted to si i texed friends and just talked
I'll show you mine if you show me yours first Let's compare scars I'll tell you whose is worse Let's unwrite these pages and replace them with our own words


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Post by 5th section » Sat Dec 27, 2008 12:50 pm

staying with family...they would have noticed.
...then one day I realised that the people you see in waiting rooms and car parks and on trains are really far more interesting. That they all have whole novels inside them, a fabric of scar tissues, photos and memories. They are comedies and tragedies and - more often - both at the same time.
- Anna James (1984-2007)

son of ultimate starshine / brother of Eisa & Sprink / Birdie's ornithologist / married to Mande / Chey's uncle
- my place
- my band (or more accurately, the band of which I am the bassist) some SI/SU triggers in lyrics...proceed with caution...

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Post by startotheright » Sat Dec 27, 2008 1:10 pm

was with friends at a shopping centre, i find public toilets dirty so i didnt want to do it in there. :-?

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