Make A Wish....

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by Licentia Poetica » Wed May 10, 2006 8:43 am

Confidence isn't something that is or isn't "you". It's something that everyone could use a little more of, something that, in my opinion makes people very beautiful. You don't have to be louder to be more confident. You just have to try believing in yourself a little.

Wanting someone to admit to your issues & talk to you about them is good. How about talking to the person? write a letter? Casually suggest it? Sometimes people don't know, you have to tell them. They're probably afraid of saying or doing something wrong. You have to let them know that you just want them to talk to you.

Everyone wishes they were stronger sometimes. I don't think there's anyone alive that hasnt. But wishing it isn't going to make it happen. I think strength is always there inside a person. It's hard to find & hard to use, but not impossible. what would you do with the strength if you found it?
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Post by Cuppy » Mon Nov 17, 2008 9:06 am

I wish (even tho it'd piss off my husband) that I could have..

a giant bong hit

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Post by catylyx,ver.2 » Mon Nov 17, 2008 10:32 pm

i wish being strong didn't hurt so much.

i wish that taking steps to be better weren't so hard.

i wish my nightmares would stop so my jaw doesn't hurt when i wake up.

....i wish i had him with me.

i wish i could get really stoned...and float away for a while.

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Post by zombiepeople » Mon Nov 17, 2008 11:45 pm

I wish someone could just turn off my brain and fix all the negative stuff and erase the memories...
"Wouldn't it be great to heal the world with only a song?"
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Post by myfriendscallmeerika » Tue Nov 18, 2008 4:32 am

i wish that i could see me the way others see me.

i wish that certain words or topics did not pull my eyes to the floor and cause my jaw to clench.

i wish that we (me, my hubby, my son) had enough money to pay all of our bills on time and not live in constant fear of having our electricity shut off or being evicted. (not wishing to be rich mind you, just secure enough to have some peace of mind)

i wish that i had the words to explain myself better or ask for what i need

i wish that i wasnt an addict

i wish i was the kind of person who could cry in public and not feel ashamed

i wish my mother in law would get better

i wish my daddy could find a way to be happy with himself

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Post by Glockenspiel » Wed Nov 26, 2008 4:30 am

I wish people wouldn't put garbage in the recycling bin.
I always enjoy myself, even when I'm crying -- Jen Johnson

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Post by kalayla » Wed Nov 26, 2008 4:33 pm

i wish it wasnt cold out
i wish i didnt have to work today
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Post by ultimate starshine » Mon Dec 01, 2008 12:47 pm

I wish it wasnt raining
I wish i wasnt going to france tomorrow but next week lol
I wish i knew exactly how to help myself love me
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Post by miffy » Fri Dec 05, 2008 5:11 pm

i wish the world was a better place

i wish everyone could just get along

i wish that everyone i knew, and those i didnt could be happy

i wish i could learn to be happy with who i am
Happiness isn't about getting what you want
Happiness is about appreciating what you have

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Post by kalayla » Fri Dec 05, 2008 5:17 pm

i wish you would feel that way about me
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Post by vampirelover » Fri Dec 05, 2008 5:20 pm

i wish for a girlfriend
longest with no slips - 2 years , 6 months
time since last slip : 2 days

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Post by kalayla » Fri Dec 05, 2008 5:24 pm

aw gf's are amazing<3
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Post by Beasty » Sun Dec 07, 2008 1:57 pm

I wish that she could be with him again, somehow. I don't believe in heaven but I wish it could exist just so that Grandmommy could see Granddad again.
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Post by zombiepeople » Sun Dec 07, 2008 6:06 pm

I wish there was nothing wrong between me and my friends, I wish people would never grow apart and that I could keep the friends I have forever
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Post by PLAIN JANE » Tue Dec 09, 2008 8:14 pm

I wish I could go back in time..........make things different...
I wish I didn't feel this.

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Post by OneWay » Sat Dec 27, 2008 8:31 am

i wish i knew what happened with s and if she dose hate me why and i wish i didnt always feel like im annoying or bothering ppl
I'll show you mine if you show me yours first Let's compare scars I'll tell you whose is worse Let's unwrite these pages and replace them with our own words


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Post by Storme » Sat Dec 27, 2008 5:53 pm

I wish people liked me.

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