Things Left Unsaid - Version 3.0 *Language*

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by southsider » Wed Jul 16, 2008 1:50 pm

Oh, you'd better believe I'm interested in what you have to say. I'm just too scared to tell you I'd like to hear. I'm afraid you'll reject me, or even worse, that you won't reject me but wish you had.
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Post by kermit » Wed Jul 16, 2008 2:39 pm

If you do not shut up then I may scream. You're really pissing me off with you excessively loud breathing and your groaning. And what the hell do you think you're doing falling asleep at work?!
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Post by faegirl » Wed Jul 16, 2008 8:03 pm

I want you to LEAVE ME ALONE. I want space, I need space, I'm entitled to space.

I told you when I first met you that I'm like this - that I'm a bad friend and I will disappear for extended periods of time without warning or reason and that you need to know that it's nothing you did or said, it's just how I am. I get burnt out on people, and if I'm avoiding you, chances are, I'm avoiding everyone and it's nothing personal.

I thought you understood. You said it was ok. But you keep calling and texting and emailing and showing up at my house. The harder you try to push your way back into my life, the harder I will try to keep you out - I'm stubborn like that, and if I have to, I can be mean - but I don't want to have to.

If you couldn't handle it, why did you agree to it in the beginning? I'm sorry if you don't have anyone else you feel like you can talk to, but that can't be my concern right now. Right now, I need to take care of me, and to do that, I need you to leave me be.
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Post by theunspoken » Wed Jul 16, 2008 8:09 pm

What do you mean by you might have gotten my diagnosis wrong?!
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Post by DecemberLivy » Wed Jul 16, 2008 11:54 pm

not talking to you yesterday killed me. if i dont see you soon i dont know what i'll do. i feel like someones taken away my lifejacket.
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Post by smr89 » Thu Jul 17, 2008 11:28 am

This is making me not feel love. Its making my heart hurt with anger and pain. I do still love you, but I don't feel love right now. I only know I love you because I care that I don't feel love, because I still do care about you-if you're ok and about your wellbeing, I still think of you like I did before.
But this is a huge problem. Its really hurting me. We'll talk about it later I guess.
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Post by Callisto » Fri Jul 18, 2008 9:09 am

i miss you









part of me feels like you're avoiding talking to me properly on purpose

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Post by caged bird » Fri Jul 18, 2008 10:43 pm

i'm mad and i know it's unjustified, i'm glad you're out with new friends, just, i really wanted to go out wuth you tonight and have a break from routine (and i was hoping he'd be there, i'm so fucking pathetic)
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Post by zombiepeople » Mon Jul 21, 2008 9:29 pm

How the hell am I supposed to fix things if you won't even tell me what I'm doing wrong?! I am not going to beg for your forgiveness.
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Post by Callisto » Tue Jul 22, 2008 5:05 pm

i'm scared i may not see you this weekend....like really scared because i miss you terribly.

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Post by 5th section » Wed Jul 23, 2008 2:40 pm

stop messing me around. Make up your fecking mind and stick to it!
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Post by Callisto » Wed Jul 23, 2008 4:35 pm

yes i've just manipulated you. yes it wasn't nice. yes it makes me a bitch. but yknow what, you drove me to it. i did it because i couldn't see another way, because i've tried every other way that i can think of.

and no forgetting to call me because you're tired isn't a good enough excuse this time.

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Post by faegirl » Wed Jul 23, 2008 4:41 pm

i miss you. i haven't seen or spoken to you in four years, but suddenly I'm aware again of the fact that you're gone... and i don't know why. you broke my heart, and if you showed up on my doorstep, i'd tell you to go to hell... but i miss you... and i hate you for it...
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Post by Kasia » Wed Jul 23, 2008 6:42 pm

I LOVE you
I NEED you

Dont treat me like this.
Dont leave me.
Dont send me back there.

Please stop this.

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Post by DecemberLivy » Thu Jul 24, 2008 5:03 am

you're really special. you have no idea the butterflies i get when you compliment me.
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Post by Beasty » Thu Jul 24, 2008 7:40 am

Please. Time is running out.
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Post by KLove24 » Thu Jul 24, 2008 7:47 am

What the hell do I do? A part of me wants to forget you and another part doesn't
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Post by neverENOUGH2010 » Fri Jul 25, 2008 12:15 am

to my teacher... you are an old hag and it wasnt fair how you lied and said we were all special when you knoew damn well i wasnt. you made that clear. and i will no longer let what you did get to me. you a selfish old bitch.

to sarah... what you did was wrong. you are sick and it has taken me 8 years to admit what you did and accpet it for what it is. you will no longer have power over me.


to alan... you crushed my heart. you promised me so many things and then took it all away. you say it was so i would get better. but you have done nothing to prove that. you go on with your life like nothing ever happened. and it hurts. its unfair i was the only one hurt in this situation. why dont you feel as i do? why didnt you care we ended? i still love you alan... and i always will....

to evan... you are an asshole. you PROMISED you wouldnt be like him. and you were. you stopped calling. and i still dont understand why....


zach... im worth more than your girlfriend so you say.. .SO WHY DONT YOU LEAVE HER?!?!?! im not going to sit around and wait for you to finally realize what your doing.. i can do better than this.
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Post by Forget Me » Sun Jul 27, 2008 11:43 am

i dont understand how you can not see what you did wrong. i know that we are very different people and that you like to talk things over with people, while i prefer privacy. but you knew me, and i don't understand how, knowing me, you justified telling that many people about our (ok, my) problem. you did nto just share with a few close freinds. you told anyone who was there to listen! you told almost every friend i have about how i was a failure as a woman and as your girlfriend, even if you couldn't see it that way. and even though those friends still love me, you humiliated me. everyone was talking about me. i don't like that! you know that.
and you know what else, which i only just realised? no-one even tried to talk to me about it.
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Post by DecemberLivy » Mon Jul 28, 2008 5:09 am

You've changed, I don't know how but you have. Now whenever I see you I just feel this deep loathing. You're egocentric and rude and I have no idea what attracted me to you to begin with. Looking back, you've always been like this, I just couldn't see it.
<center>my walpole cafe

"My life's a mess"
"That's the way it's supposed to be" - soap -
</center>

I think I'll paint roads
on my front room walls
to convince myself
that I'm going places.

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