Candys Coping Thread

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by Candy » Sat May 31, 2008 2:52 pm

I am doing alright. I had a good night sleep. I went for a walk and it help me alot. I talked to my boy-friend he is doing fine. I can not wait till he gets home,I miss him. NO SI so far and that is great. I am going to do positive things for myself today and enjoy myself. I have been using my coping skills and it has helped me alot. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be back on later.taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Sat May 31, 2008 8:25 pm

I am doing alright. I have been keeping myself busy most of the day. I already had dinner and did the dishes. NO SI so far and that is great. I have been doing positive things for myself today and that is great. My boy-friend is doing good,just can not wait till he gets home. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I am going to lay down and take it easy for awhile. Be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Sat May 31, 2008 11:55 pm

I am doing alright. I took a nap for awhile and now I am going to watch t.v.,and relaxed. I already talked to my boy-friend and he is doing alright. I am feeling pretty good and keeping myself busy. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. Be back on later. taking care of mself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Sun Jun 01, 2008 3:54 am

I am doing alright. I had a good day. I talked to my boy-friend and he is doing alright, I will be seeing him tomorrow at the hospital. NO SI so far and that is great. I am going to enjoy my day tomorrow and do positive things for myself. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I am going to watch t.v.,for awhile and then go to bed. I will be just fine. Be back on sometime tomorrow. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Sun Jun 01, 2008 3:59 pm

I am doing alright. I slept good last night. I am writing in my journal and it is helping me alot. NO SI so far and that is great. I will be going to see my boy-friend today at the hospital,he should be coming home tomorrow. I am going to do positive things for myself today. I am feeling pretty good. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Sun Jun 01, 2008 8:56 pm

I am doing alright. I went to see my boy-friend at the hospital and he is doing good,he should be home tomorrow. After that I went to Wendy's for dinner. Now I am going to watch t.v.,for awhile and then lay down. I am feeling pretty good and I did positive things for myself as well. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. Be back on tomorrow. taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Mon Jun 02, 2008 12:05 am

I am doing alright. I took a nap for awhile and now I am going to watch t.v. I already talked my boy-friend and he is doing alright,hopefully he will be home tomorrow. NO SI so far and that is great. I am going to relax and watch t.v.,for awhile. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. Be back on later.taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Mon Jun 02, 2008 4:09 am

I am doing alright. I already talked to my boy-friend he is doing great. Hopefully he will come home tomorrow. I am feeling pretty good. I have done alot of positive things for myself and ,I am very proud of myself. NO SI tonight and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I have to clean my apartment tomorrow and then my nurse will be over later on to do my medications. I will be just fine. Be back on sometime tomorrow. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Mon Jun 02, 2008 3:38 pm

I am doing alright. I slept good last night. I cleaned my apartment and then I went for a walk and it helped me alot. I am going to relax for awhile and do things around here that are positive for me. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I hope my boy-friend comes home today,I just have to wait and see what happens. I am feeling pretty good. I will be back on later. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Mon Jun 02, 2008 10:33 pm

I am doing alright. I got my cleaning done and later on in the afternoon,my nurse came over and did my medications. I already had dinner and did the dishes. My boy-friend is still in the hospital and I am not sure if he is coming home or not,the doctor has not come up to see him .I will do positive things for myself today. I miss him,so I hope he comes home. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. Be back on later. taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Tue Jun 03, 2008 4:30 am

I am doing alright. I am watching t.v.,and relaxing. I talked to my boy-friend and he did not come home tonight,mainly cause his doctor did not show up to see him,so hopefully tomorrow. I am feeling lonely and depressed,cause he is not here,but I have program tomorrow,so that should help me feel better. NO SI night and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. Be back on tomorrow after program. taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Tue Jun 03, 2008 8:10 pm

I am doing alright. I had a great day at program. My boy-friend is still in the hospital,not sure when he willl get out. I know the nights are rough for me,cause I am not use to being by myself,but I am using my coping skills. I am feeling so-so. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be seeing him tonight at 5pm,so it will give me a chance to see him. I will be just fine. Be back on later. taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Wed Jun 04, 2008 4:10 am

I am doing alright. I went to see my boy-friend at the hospital and he is doing alright. I had a great visit. I hope he comes home tomorrow, I have to wait and see what happens. I have been relaxing and watching t.v. NO SI so far and that is great. I have day treatment program tomorrow and I am looking forward to going in. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be going to bed soon,cause I am getting tired. I am feeling pretty good. I will be just fine. Be back on sometime tomorrow. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Wed Jun 04, 2008 8:00 pm

I am doing alright. I had a great day at program and the groups went great. I talked to my boy-friend and he is still in the hosptial. I feel depressed and lonely,but I will get through it. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know I am doing. I going to relax and take it easy today. I will be just fine. Be back on the bus later.taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Thu Jun 05, 2008 12:36 pm

I am doing alright. I could not get on the bus last night,but I did get through the night,even though it was not easy for me. My boy-friend did not get home yet,and I am feeling so-so,hopefully tonight. I am getting ready for program and then I have to see my therapist. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. I have been using my coping skills and it is helping me alot. I will be back on after program. taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Thu Jun 05, 2008 8:13 pm

I am doing pretty good. I had a great day at program and a good talk with my therapist. My boy-friend is still in the hospital and I will be going up to see him later. NO SI so far and that is great. I am feeling depressed and lonely,cause he is not here and the nights are hard for me,cause that is when SI sets in,but I will be alright. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. Be back on later.taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Fri Jun 06, 2008 2:39 am

I am doing alright. I went to visit my boy-friend and he is doing alright. He should be out tomorrow,I hope so. I am getting my haircut in the mornng and then I have a doctor's appt.around 10 am,cause my wrist is bothering me,hopefully there is nothing really wrong with it. NO SI tonight and that is great. I am going to watch t,v.,and then later on I will go to bed. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. Be back on sometime tomorrow. taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Fri Jun 06, 2008 7:26 pm

I am doing alright. I went to see the doctor this morning and I have tenditios in wrist again,so I have to take care of it. Then I went to get my haircut and boy do I feel better. NO SI so far and that is great. My boy-friend is out of the hospital,we are both happy,he will be over later. I have things to do around here,so that will keep me busy. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. Be back on later.taking care of myself. :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Sat Jun 07, 2008 12:02 am

I am doing alright. I wrote in my journal and it helped me alot. Then I took a nap,cause I was tired and hot from the heat. My boy-friend is here and I am happy,we are going to have a great time. NO SI so far and that is great. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I am feeling pretty good. Be back on later.taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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Post by Candy » Sat Jun 07, 2008 4:51 am

I am doing alright. I had a great time with my boy-friend,we just relaxed and sometime together. He went home to get some sleep,and I will be doing the samething soon. NO SI tonight and that is great. I have been usnng my coping skills and it helped me alot. I just wanted to let everyone know how I am doing. I will be just fine. Be back on sometime tomorrow.taking care of myself :bcatsmile:
I am in a dark place like a turtle afraid to deal with the pain that I do not want to feel,but eventually I will slowly face my pain,like the turtle when he comes out of his shell.

To find yourself,think of yourself first.

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