last time i wanted to si, i didn't because.......

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by Cuppy » Thu Feb 28, 2008 4:30 pm

I played games until I relaxed
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Post by Roxi » Mon Mar 03, 2008 3:40 pm

I know I don't need to- it's just a feeling and I can accept it for what it is and choose not to act on it
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Post by Amneris » Wed Mar 05, 2008 5:45 am

because it wasnt the right thing to do.. (but ooooohhhh i wanted to do it so much)
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Post by vampirelover » Wed Mar 05, 2008 9:38 pm

my bestfriend rang me the second before hand and listened to me rant.
longest with no slips - 2 years , 6 months
time since last slip : 2 days

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Post by powdahchica » Thu Mar 06, 2008 5:40 am

i don't have the energy
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Post by southsider » Thu Mar 06, 2008 1:50 pm

because it would have come off as manipulative and done me more harm than good.
because i didn't want to lose so much time SI-free.
because i didn't want to lose credibility in the eyes of my T and pdoc.
because i didn't want to have to care for wounds.
because it would have given my friend something more to worry about, and she doesn't need that.
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Post by 5th section » Thu Mar 06, 2008 3:35 pm

bloodstains on sleeves don't look very good on stage
...then one day I realised that the people you see in waiting rooms and car parks and on trains are really far more interesting. That they all have whole novels inside them, a fabric of scar tissues, photos and memories. They are comedies and tragedies and - more often - both at the same time.
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Post by ultimate starshine » Fri Mar 07, 2008 4:30 am

I wasnt in my own flat
Sprink is my wonderful gobby (goblin) daughter
I am 5th Sections mummy
RDS is my amazing sister
Elmoscaresme is my adorable niece
I am Eisa's Fairy

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Post by bzztbabe » Fri Mar 07, 2008 5:32 am

because i ended up writing all over myself (in ink) instead
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Post by PassingCloud » Fri Mar 07, 2008 12:30 pm

i was able to analyze what's behind the urges and tried (and still try) dealing with that.
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[I'm talking about form, I'm talking about content.][I'm talking about inter-relationships.]
[I'm talking about God, the Devil, Hell, Heaven!]
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Post by Priceless » Sun Mar 09, 2008 10:37 pm

because i delayed it till i fell asleep

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Post by SarahBee » Mon Mar 10, 2008 2:38 am

Because I knew if I started I would never stop, and crying is better for me, so I crawled into bed and sobbed.
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water to me
deep and bold and fathoming....
You were
sunrise to me
rise and warm and streaming....
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Post by ultimate starshine » Mon Mar 17, 2008 2:26 am

I managed to drstract myself.
Sprink is my wonderful gobby (goblin) daughter
I am 5th Sections mummy
RDS is my amazing sister
Elmoscaresme is my adorable niece
I am Eisa's Fairy

"The marks I make, The steps I take, Prove i still exist" ~ written by me."

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Post by eleonor » Sat Mar 22, 2008 4:03 pm

I promised myself I'll go for at least 3 months SI-free :star:
... I'm gonna choose my path and go away
Away from salty winds and that deep ocean
That hides horizons and drowns dreams...

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Post by rhiannon » Sat Mar 22, 2008 4:31 pm

I love my boyfriend. :cyheart:

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Post by rememberthatiloveyou » Sat Mar 22, 2008 4:37 pm

i don't want my irl friends to have to take care of me as much as they do.
We can not do great things, only small things with great love. It is not how much you do but how much love you put into doing it. -Mother Teresa

i'm at my summer job as a camp counselor, if it takes me a while to answer, its not because i'm ignoring you...just don't get on a computer much.

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Post by volta » Sat Mar 22, 2008 7:43 pm

i drew on my arms instead.

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Post by ThanksALatte » Sun Mar 23, 2008 2:15 am

...i have a friend staying with me and i have no privacy this week.
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Post by calypso » Mon Mar 31, 2008 6:01 pm

I distracted until I was too tired.

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Post by kittyfever » Sun Apr 06, 2008 10:42 pm

I remembered that I'm special and deserve good things..and that he doesn't care if I do it anyways

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