tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.
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miffy
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by miffy » Mon Dec 10, 2007 5:55 pm
I am proud of myself for not having cut for three weeks,
I am proud of myself for being there 100% for a friend in need
I am proud of myself for keeping work in perspective
I am proud of myself for losing weight
Miffy

Happiness isn't about getting what you want
Happiness is about appreciating what you have
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Glockenspiel
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by Glockenspiel » Sun Dec 16, 2007 11:27 pm
Doing housework and other stuff
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StevieLynn
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by StevieLynn » Mon Dec 17, 2007 5:28 am
I'm proud of myself today because even though I was feeling SU and anxious, I went to my friend's daughter's party and it helped me stay safe.
Love,
Stevie
In Which Something Oooh Occurred
And it felt like a winter machine that you go through and then you catch your breath and winter starts again, and everyone else was springbound. And when I chose to live, there was no joy, it's just a line I crossed. I wasn't worth the pain my death would cost, so I was not lost or found....But when you live in a world, well, it gets in to who you th ought you'd be. And now I laugh at how the world changed me. I think life chose me after all.
--Dar Williams
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Binayshee
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by Binayshee » Tue Jan 15, 2008 2:11 am
i got a ton of work done in the house today
and i made this really good vegan sugar free
gluten free apple pie today. my own recipe.
was so good. and healthy!

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Binayshee
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by Binayshee » Wed Jan 16, 2008 12:37 am
i made a vegetarian shepherd's pie today
an improvisation that turned out surprisingly
good

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Cellardoor
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by Cellardoor » Wed Jan 16, 2008 1:09 am
I was worried about by burn so i showed my mum and let her take me to A&E.
Good job el,
good job.
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Spidey
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by Spidey » Wed Jan 16, 2008 1:24 am
I took care of myself.
there is, in the end, the letting go.
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lily_trying
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by lily_trying » Wed Jan 16, 2008 8:23 am
I made a call to get referrals for therapy/help.
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ultimate starshine
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by ultimate starshine » Wed Jan 16, 2008 12:09 pm
Im proud of myself today becuase I got up at 7am to start revising... yay me

Sprink is my wonderful gobby (goblin) daughter
I am 5th Sections mummy
RDS is my amazing sister
Elmoscaresme is my adorable niece
I am Eisa's Fairy
"The marks I make, The steps I take, Prove i still exist" ~ written by me."
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Nursing_girl
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by Nursing_girl » Wed Jan 16, 2008 6:15 pm
I got a bunch of things done and I didnt let myself sleep in!

~~~Kristen~~~
Life is a song...Love is the Music::: My Place!
*There been times that I thought I couldn't last for long
But now I think I'm able to carry on
It's been a long, a long time coming
But I know a change gonna come, oh yes it will
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vampirelover
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by vampirelover » Wed Jan 16, 2008 7:16 pm
because i got 3 Bs and an A in science GCSE'S even though i was ill when i was meant 2 be working and im doing addictional science in one year
longest with no slips - 2 years , 6 months
time since last slip : 2 days
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xStarBright
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by xStarBright » Wed Jan 16, 2008 9:06 pm
I'm still alive.
Take care,
Annie.
don't worry if i'm not here - i come and go.
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lily_trying
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by lily_trying » Fri Jan 18, 2008 7:35 pm
i was able to make a call that might lead to therapy referrals.
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xStarBright
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by xStarBright » Fri Jan 18, 2008 7:51 pm
not really "proud" but have gone a week no SI
don't worry if i'm not here - i come and go.
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whatever
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by whatever » Sat Jan 19, 2008 1:07 pm
i made dinner for me and S.
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xStarBright
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by xStarBright » Sat Jan 19, 2008 1:37 pm
I made it through the night
don't worry if i'm not here - i come and go.
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red_viola
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by red_viola » Sun Jan 20, 2008 3:50 am
Hey great job everyone!!
(And thats really great, Annie!)
I'm not really proud but I've almost gone through January (my. worst. month. ever.) without any permanent SI!
YAY!
Great job everyone else!!!!!

ruby

My apologizes in advance if the above post makes no sense. I do that a lot.
*no longer proofreading posts in my place*
“Anyone can give up, it’s the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that’s true strength.”~Unknown (to me atleast)
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Skyeler
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by Skyeler » Sun Jan 20, 2008 5:31 am
I figured out how to use my iphone.
Most of the time I feel like I don't belong.
But I got my new favorite record today.
My favorites change every single day.
Except you,
You'll always be number one.
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volta
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by volta » Sun Jan 20, 2008 5:33 am
i finally got out of bed