Things that make you *try*

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by Callisto » Sat Jul 07, 2007 6:49 pm

le ameh <3

my friends

my desire to see my future and make it better than my past

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Post by pretty » Sun Jul 08, 2007 12:05 pm

Knowing that this can't be it. The rest of my life has to be better. I have to make it better.
'this is what she says gets her through it,
"if I don't let myself be happy now, then when?"' - jimmy eat world

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Post by loveLights » Thu Jul 12, 2007 4:43 pm

my friend chris said that i'm not a lost cause!

my kids make me happy.

i know i deserve better than this mess.

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Post by vampire_kisses » Thu Jul 12, 2007 9:33 pm

Because I have plans for the future,
I want to be a veterinarian...
I want to have a family,
I want to mean something in the world,
and make a difference.
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Post by downwardspiral » Wed Jul 18, 2007 7:55 pm

The fact that my Dad went through the same feelings as I have and came out on the brighter side and is now living life to the full.

I tried to stay focussed on that for the past 2 weeks but the urge overtook me only 20 minutes ago.

My dad told me to listen to "Shine" by Take That and said this is how he felt about me and how he knew I would get better:

You, you're such a big star to me
You're everything I wanna be
But you're stuck in a hole and I want you to get out
I don't know what there is to see
But I know it's time for you to leave
We're all just pushing along
Trying to figure it out, out, out.

All your anticipation pulls you down
When you can have it all, you can have it all.

So come on, come on, get it on
Don't know what you're waiting for
Your time is coming don't be late, hey hey
So come on
See the light on your face
Let it shine
Just let it shine
Let it shine.

Stop being so hard on yourself
It's not good for your health
I know that you can change
So clear your head ang come round
You only have to open your eyes
You might just get a big surprise
And it may feel good and you might want to smile, smile, smile.

Don't you let your demons pull you down
'Cause you can have it all, you can have it all.

Hey let me know you
You're all that matters to me
Hey let me show you
You're all that matters to me.

Hey let me love you
You're all that matters to me
Hey so come on yeah
Shine all your light over me.

Hope this helps some other people out there xx
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I don't know why people like me, I'm just being me.

Everyone seems so happy, wonderful and free.
For I will never be perfect like that, because I am only me."

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Post by pretty » Wed Jul 18, 2007 7:58 pm

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'this is what she says gets her through it,
"if I don't let myself be happy now, then when?"' - jimmy eat world

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Post by Kaleb » Wed Jul 18, 2007 11:42 pm

- knowing that no matter how long the tunnel maybe - there is light at the end of it - somewhere.
- Knowing she loves me.
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No matter which sleeve you wear your heart,
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Tomorrow is another day to turn it all around
I will stop when I'm ready I'll shown everyone my cards
But for now I'll keep on playing even when the game gets hard.



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Post by Bright blue » Mon Jan 07, 2008 10:27 am

when you know some one really cares about you.

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Post by Ruby Tuesday » Mon Jan 07, 2008 5:20 pm

my family. Remembering how much my parents care and believe in me. Remembering all those years ago when they found out about my SI and it was so upsetting, and my brother just came and sat with me and stayed with me.

that, and all the books I haven't read yet. :)
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Post by lily_trying » Tue Jan 08, 2008 12:13 am

-wondering what will happen next & thinking it might be something better/something good.

-finding pleasure & happiness in day to day things (music, etc).

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Post by Cellardoor » Tue Jan 08, 2008 1:40 am

Jessica <3
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Post by xStarBright » Fri Jan 11, 2008 6:38 pm

Just to see what happens next. :)
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Post by ComfortablyNumb » Fri Jan 11, 2008 7:01 pm

Because I never want to be the reason my mom or my friends are crying again.

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Post by Draco Malfoy. » Fri Jan 11, 2008 7:04 pm

Because I'm 14, and there's so much I want to see and do with my life, and some of the crap stuff, like going to school, is something I have to work throught to get myself there.
So I get on with it because I want to live my life my own way.
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Post by lily_trying » Fri Jan 11, 2008 10:25 pm

-seeing my friends create amazing works of art, and wanting to be there to be a part of that.
-being inspired to create as well. :star:

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Post by vampirelover » Fri Jan 11, 2008 10:34 pm

fear of loosing

my mates

and going to boarding school
longest with no slips - 2 years , 6 months
time since last slip : 2 days

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Post by amyfairy » Sun Jan 13, 2008 11:48 am

because otherwise i fail. and i cannot fail, ever again. at anything.
because it'll be worth it in the end.
because there's more than this.

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Post by WildChild101 » Sun Jan 13, 2008 5:24 pm

knowing if i dont then its going to hurt everybody

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Post by funkymusic » Wed Jan 23, 2008 3:25 pm

WildChild101 wrote:knowing if i dont then its going to hurt everybody
That's how I feel sometimes too.

Today, I'm going to school right now because of Bus and everyone on it. Thank you for helping me! I cannot say that enough.

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Post by Chaocontrol6 » Wed Jan 23, 2008 4:02 pm

Glad that BUS has been a good inspriation to get you to school :D It's a great place to be :)

And why I try?? I know that I've got a chance at Uni, something nobody else in my family ever managed to do, to go abroad like my family never did, and to have a life I want but SI wont do that, perservering will get me there.
Just let time tell the story, and act accordingly. (Phrase by myself)
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These feelings too, shall pass. (BUS phrase?)
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