The *hoping* thread..

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by wilson » Thu Aug 09, 2007 6:10 pm

i hope this pain goes away
i hope i have the senses to not do this again
i hope it gets better
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Post by Cellardoor » Thu Aug 09, 2007 6:40 pm

i hope i feel happy tomorow.
i hope im thinner by the time school starts.
i hope me and jess are together forever.
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Post by fishhead » Sat Aug 11, 2007 8:02 am

I hope that I can go to my doctor without my mom knowing and get some meds. I hope that if I do get some meds they actually work unlike the others.
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Post by wilson » Sat Aug 11, 2007 5:40 pm

i hope i can make that phonecall on monday.
i hope i can tell her the truth
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Post by wilson » Mon Aug 13, 2007 3:12 pm

i hope i can do this.
<center>R.I.P. 23/07/89 - 05/11/01
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im over existing in limbo
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Post by steady hands » Tue Aug 14, 2007 6:58 am

I hope that I have the power to continue overcoming obstacles in my life.

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Post by cant-take-it » Thu Aug 16, 2007 6:30 pm

I hope I get those results I really need.
I hope I can make more firm friends.
I hope that one day I can actually look in the mirror and like what I see.
I hope that I can find someone who will love me.
I hope I can cope with this.
I hope that all the shit will finish soon.
<center> Depression.
Is like a warm blanket I wrap around myself, like a friend I haven't seen in years,
I welcome you back in my life.
I let you in and you are so familiar. You are here to keep me warm and safe and sane, but I know that’s not the truth, those are your words, your lies for me to hold onto and find comfort in.
All I want to do is lie on the floor and stare into space, and you put your arms around me and say its ok, don't get up, you don't have to do anything anymore. You say the things I want to hear, I know you are the only one who understands that I am worthless, meaningless, that I am nothing.
You stroke my hair and face, and you say yes, it is that bad.
And it is never going to get any better.

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Post by DecemberLivy » Sun Aug 19, 2007 11:03 am

i hope, someday, i find a man who reaches all of my high standards and loves me unconditionally.
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Post by fishhead » Sat Aug 25, 2007 8:58 pm

I hope that I can manage school this year without falling behind and needing to explain sticky situations to my teachers.
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Post by Kaelyn » Sun Aug 26, 2007 11:33 am

I hope that I can learn to accept and love myself
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Post by M-go0 » Mon Aug 27, 2007 3:27 pm

I hope that there will come a time without the anxiety.
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Post by artemisillusion » Sat Sep 01, 2007 4:19 am

I hope I can stop before I kill myself.
I hope I can find a way to finally be happy.
I hope I can love my husband the way he deserves to be loved.
I hope one day love and sex don't make me feel sick.
I hope my students understand that I have to enforce silly rules like the dress code and cell phone confiscation because I will be fired if I don't.

I hope everyone is able to achieve their dreams.
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Post by DecemberLivy » Sat Sep 01, 2007 1:58 pm

I hope I get my art coursework done before I go back to school
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I will get my art coursework done before I go back to school.
Infact, I'm going to do it right now.
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Post by Beasty » Thu Sep 13, 2007 11:48 pm

I hope that this year won't be the death of me. Curse senior year.
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I hope that someday I can be honest with her.
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I hope that someone will ask me to the dance. But I don't think that will happen.
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Post by wilson » Fri Sep 14, 2007 3:28 am

i hope i pass my course
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im over existing in limbo
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i dont really mind if i just fade away
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Post by Spidey » Sat Sep 15, 2007 2:25 am

I hope this works out. I like the people, the atmosphere, the busy-ness. I can get used to it.

I just hope that they like *me*.
there is, in the end, the letting go.
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Post by Wall » Sun Sep 16, 2007 5:40 am

I hope that I can use recently gained information for growth and healing.
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And we are caught in the middle


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Post by FlyingOnBrokenWings » Sun Sep 16, 2007 6:07 pm

I hope that one day I can accept myself as I am.
I hope that I tell him how being molested has affected me.
I hope that I can tell my mom to back off.
I hope I find true love again.
I hope that I find someone who will accept me for me.
I hope that I change the world for the better.

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Post by fadingbutterfly » Sun Sep 16, 2007 6:43 pm

I hope to be free one day soon

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Post by thewaves » Tue Sep 18, 2007 8:25 am

I hope that I can learn to let go of things and put my own trivial problems in perspective, but I also hope that I can stop feeling so guilty all the time. I'm not personal responsible for everything that goes wrong around me...I hope I can learn to believe that.

I hope to lose more weight, but I know that what I really want is to stop caring about it so much.

I hope that he still likes me...or that I could at least stop caring either way.

I hope that I can stop worrying about everything, and that I can stop overanalyzing everything to the point that I obliterate all joy that could come from relaxing and enjoying the moment.

I hope to make some major changes in my life. All the years of accepting mediocrity out of fear that the other option is failure is getting to be unbearable.

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