tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.
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Quiet little Angel
- just plain inspiring

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by Quiet little Angel » Sun Jun 10, 2007 9:45 pm
i stood up for how i feel and took care of it without excusing everything
and i got my parents to let me have the car tomorrow to avoid total panic from having to take a bus i've never taken before, thus sticking up for myself and making sure i didn't get into a situation i couldn't handle... (and yeah that is a big deal...)

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MusicalMorphine
- growing roots

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by MusicalMorphine » Wed Jun 13, 2007 7:49 am
Didn't cut last night even though I wanted to. Nearly 1 month.
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Beasty
- troll sniper

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by Beasty » Thu Jun 14, 2007 2:28 am
Today I didn't go mush for him. I remained composed and distant.
"No boom today. Boom tomorrow. There’s always a boom tomorrow. What? Look, somebody’s got to have some damn perspective around here. Boom, sooner or later. BOOM!" - Susan Ivanova
Eisa = Beasty's Twin
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the edge of the world
- knows the ropes

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by the edge of the world » Fri Jun 15, 2007 10:26 am
I'm feeling better.
I want to live and to do BIG things.
I started a "health journal" to help me take care of myself better. I've been reading this book my mom got me called "Dorm Room Diet" about maintaining/starting a healthy lifestyle in college, because I'm nervous about having to take care of myself.
I will succeed.
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TheRockingHorse
- quintessential regular

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by TheRockingHorse » Fri Jun 15, 2007 4:44 pm
i ate more than i wanted to
i made myself eat,
and feel a bit better because of it
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Binayshee
- orange smartie

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by Binayshee » Sat Jun 16, 2007 5:22 am
i didn't overreact when something happened
between me and another person that made
me uncomfortable today
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Scatterbrain
- bus conductor

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by Scatterbrain » Tue Jun 19, 2007 9:13 am
I didnt make another appointment with my T cuz i was flipping out. But, I made myself call JM and then let him talk me into making another appointment. Then, I actually made it, and I plan to go to the appointment.
~Megan
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SxcJulz4eva
- growing roots

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by SxcJulz4eva » Tue Jun 19, 2007 9:38 am
i havent sied for 6 months officially
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HakunaMatata
- one of us

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by HakunaMatata » Wed Jun 20, 2007 4:13 pm
Ok, so not along th esame lines as everyone else, but...
I have my horse at college and I'm looking after him all by myself, and I need to look after myself in order to do that.
And then today we got right rein canter, which never happens, so I'm proud of the pair of us.

*NO HUGS PLEASE*
Ache-me se for capaz HM's place- everyone welcome but please read first post!
'Love is worth everything. How much are you willing to risk?'~Umara, gone forever, forgotten never.
'You can't put a price on happiness. Follow your dreams'~ Mithz
I don't like country and western. I don't like rock music, I don't like rockabilly or rock and roll particularly. I don't like much, really, do I? But what I do like, I love passionately. ~ The Pet Shop Boys
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the edge of the world
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by the edge of the world » Fri Jun 22, 2007 9:11 am
wheeeee -- I'm thinking positively!
I'm taking my nutrition stuff because it makes me feel great, but it is still a hassle -- I'm proud of myself for remembering, for hoping, for trying......
And... I'm proud that I am who I am, which I just found out!

and it's an amazing realization....
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Brit
- part of the fixtures

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by Brit » Sat Jun 23, 2007 2:29 am
I'm proud of myself because I didn't fight with my sister or my brother. I'm also proud of myself because I didn't cut today.
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shadowavenger
- creating your space

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by shadowavenger » Sat Jun 23, 2007 11:23 pm
I am proud of myself today because I tidied my room.
Another lonely highway in the black of night
There's hope in the darkness, you know you're going to make it
"This must be Thursday. I could never get the hang of Thursdays." - Arthur Dent
"You're just wearing on the outside what the rest of us wear on the inside." - Sean McNamara, Nip/Tuck
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Beasty
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by Beasty » Sun Jun 24, 2007 3:13 am
I put a flower in her mailbox without getting caught
"No boom today. Boom tomorrow. There’s always a boom tomorrow. What? Look, somebody’s got to have some damn perspective around here. Boom, sooner or later. BOOM!" - Susan Ivanova
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xCheerUpFailurex
- creating your space

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by xCheerUpFailurex » Sun Jun 24, 2007 7:34 am
Because I'm officially 2 weeks SI free today!!!
Failure is unimportant. It takes courage to make a fool of yourself. - Charlie Chaplin
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wilson
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by wilson » Sun Jun 24, 2007 2:07 pm
im proud cos i as weird as it seems i was selfish today. and told people i needed time to myself to think.
<center>
R.I.P. 23/07/89 - 05/11/01
R.I.P. 1953-2008
counting stars
im over existing in limbo
im over the myths and placebos
i dont really mind if i just fade away
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Binayshee
- orange smartie

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by Binayshee » Sun Jun 24, 2007 5:28 pm
i'm proud of myself today because i didn't withdraw
and then get really upset when someone was angry
with me. i confronted the situation by saying "you
look angry" and i told them why i did what i did
(the thing that made them angry) and it wasn't
perfect, but it was alot better.

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one out of none
- bus addict

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by one out of none » Wed Jun 27, 2007 5:02 pm
I got my exam results and they were good! I am proud of myself for doing well and getting through them ok.
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morning-glory
- bus mechanic

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by morning-glory » Mon Jul 16, 2007 6:25 pm
I'm proud of myself today for doing my best on my chem test even though I felt hopeless about it and just wanted to quit.
I'm also proud of myself for not giving into si yesterday or today but tried to solve my problems constructivly instead.
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thatkid
- settling in

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by thatkid » Tue Jul 17, 2007 12:34 am
im proud of myself today for finally cleaning and organizing my art desk,.
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