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Post by Seeshellz » Wed Jan 17, 2007 5:26 pm

I made 1 month SI free today.
"If you learn from your suffering,

and really come to understand the lesson you were taught,

you might be able to help someone else who's now

in the phase you may have just completed.

Maybe that's what it's all about after all..."

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Post by acdcrocker1909 » Thu Jan 18, 2007 1:00 am

I proud that I didnt flip out on a single person today... especially because I did not flip out on my Drama Coach.
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Post by the edge of the world » Thu Jan 18, 2007 4:21 am

I found out my friend is back in the psych ward and felt really anxious 'cause I worry about her but I was nice to myself and took out my anxiety on my squishy ball :)
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Post by fuyumi » Thu Jan 18, 2007 3:01 pm

...because
i took my iron supplements
and
i had proper lunch

- so i turn myself inside out in hope someone will see -
- these precious things let them break their hold on me -
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Post by danonegative » Thu Jan 18, 2007 4:10 pm

.....because
even though it is hard
I made through another
day without hurting
myself.


D.
Let me put on my clown face,
Before I roll out of bed.
So everyone who looks at me,
Won't know how sad I am.
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Post by StevieLynn » Fri Jan 19, 2007 2:21 am

I'm proud of myself today because I ate dinner under my own motivation and I didn't make myself throw up afterwards. :oops:
In Which Something Oooh Occurred

And it felt like a winter machine that you go through and then you catch your breath and winter starts again, and everyone else was springbound. And when I chose to live, there was no joy, it's just a line I crossed. I wasn't worth the pain my death would cost, so I was not lost or found....But when you live in a world, well, it gets in to who you th ought you'd be. And now I laugh at how the world changed me. I think life chose me after all.
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Post by angelic212 » Fri Jan 19, 2007 6:22 am

im proud of myself cause i deleted negative ed sites from my computer,
it was tough,
and it was a therapy assignment,
and im proud cause i was able to delete them from my computer
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Post by StevieLynn » Sat Jan 20, 2007 1:30 pm

I am proud of myself today because I made five months SI free! :multi:

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In Which Something Oooh Occurred

And it felt like a winter machine that you go through and then you catch your breath and winter starts again, and everyone else was springbound. And when I chose to live, there was no joy, it's just a line I crossed. I wasn't worth the pain my death would cost, so I was not lost or found....But when you live in a world, well, it gets in to who you th ought you'd be. And now I laugh at how the world changed me. I think life chose me after all.
--Dar Williams
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Post by Seeshellz » Sat Jan 20, 2007 10:42 pm

I'm proud of myself today because I exercised!! :)
"If you learn from your suffering,

and really come to understand the lesson you were taught,

you might be able to help someone else who's now

in the phase you may have just completed.

Maybe that's what it's all about after all..."

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Post by delicateshadow » Sun Jan 21, 2007 3:09 pm

I haven't hurt myself today yet. I also slept well last night.
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Post by Quiet little Angel » Mon Jan 22, 2007 11:10 am

well this is actually from yesterday...

i'm proud of myself for getting my essay finished, even though it was 10 days late and it wasn't very good i got it done and sent before getting a warning...

i'm also proud i went swimming... all alone in a public pool... i did 30 laps in 45 minutes which doesn't seem like much, but i can't help being proud...

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Post by 5th section » Mon Jan 22, 2007 11:30 am

TWO MONTHS!!
...then one day I realised that the people you see in waiting rooms and car parks and on trains are really far more interesting. That they all have whole novels inside them, a fabric of scar tissues, photos and memories. They are comedies and tragedies and - more often - both at the same time.
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Post by Spidey » Mon Jan 22, 2007 11:29 pm

today is one month si-free for me.
there is, in the end, the letting go.
-marya hornbacher

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Post by Quiet little Angel » Mon Jan 22, 2007 11:35 pm

i was completely honest with a guy that's been bugging me for months now...
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Post by StevieLynn » Tue Jan 23, 2007 4:43 am

I am proud of myself today because I made myself leave the house, and because I managed to eat a small meal today and not make myself sick.
In Which Something Oooh Occurred

And it felt like a winter machine that you go through and then you catch your breath and winter starts again, and everyone else was springbound. And when I chose to live, there was no joy, it's just a line I crossed. I wasn't worth the pain my death would cost, so I was not lost or found....But when you live in a world, well, it gets in to who you th ought you'd be. And now I laugh at how the world changed me. I think life chose me after all.
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Post by Seeshellz » Tue Jan 23, 2007 4:10 pm

I'm proud of myself today, because I am going to therapy and group therapy even though I am terrified about going, I am going to push myself to go.
"If you learn from your suffering,

and really come to understand the lesson you were taught,

you might be able to help someone else who's now

in the phase you may have just completed.

Maybe that's what it's all about after all..."

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Post by black_23 » Tue Jan 23, 2007 5:41 pm

I'm proud of myself, cos i made it to the doctors with out panicing, just hoping the pain stops now.
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Post by StevieLynn » Tue Jan 23, 2007 10:56 pm

I am proud of myself today because I reached out to a friend to help her better understand her daughter, who SIs.

I am also proud of myself today because I made it through work without panicking.

Love,
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In Which Something Oooh Occurred

And it felt like a winter machine that you go through and then you catch your breath and winter starts again, and everyone else was springbound. And when I chose to live, there was no joy, it's just a line I crossed. I wasn't worth the pain my death would cost, so I was not lost or found....But when you live in a world, well, it gets in to who you th ought you'd be. And now I laugh at how the world changed me. I think life chose me after all.
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Post by wilson » Wed Jan 24, 2007 1:59 am

im proud of myself today beacuse i got into ecu boarding village so i can do my course.
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Post by acdcrocker1909 » Sat Jan 27, 2007 11:53 pm

I'm proud of myself because I didn't punch my drama coach in the face, nor did I scream and yell at her.. like I wanted to.
It does not do to dwell on dreams, and forget to live - APWBD.


Music is life.. we each have our own symphony.. and we control it for the most part.. sometimes instruments drop out.. and others join in.. but when the music fades and the symphony is done.. then we have created a beautiful, personal piece. - Me.

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