tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.
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by zombiepeople » Tue Jan 16, 2007 2:44 am
-making snarky comments on bad horror movies with my buddies
-Mountain Dew!!
-South Park
-collecting spit and toothpaste in a bottle (I'm weird I know)
-that fuzzy stuff on peaches and kiwi
-glaring suspiciously at random objects
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glowsticks!!
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by plantt » Tue Jan 16, 2007 3:32 am
--music
--brother
--indian food
--a partially clean spot in the house
--surviving ick therapy sessions
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--the smell of a favorite blanket
--fuzzy froggie robes
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by StevieLynn » Sat Jan 20, 2007 1:11 am
- Fleece pajama pants
- Flannel sheets and blankets
- Snow
- coffee
- homemade soup
- the mittens I am making that look like alligators!
- L.L.Bean "wicked good" slippers
- the card from my camper telling me what a positive influence I've had on her life and how much she loves me
Love,
Stevie
In Which Something Oooh Occurred
And it felt like a winter machine that you go through and then you catch your breath and winter starts again, and everyone else was springbound. And when I chose to live, there was no joy, it's just a line I crossed. I wasn't worth the pain my death would cost, so I was not lost or found....But when you live in a world, well, it gets in to who you th ought you'd be. And now I laugh at how the world changed me. I think life chose me after all.
--Dar Williams
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by Alexannah » Sat Jan 20, 2007 11:47 pm
+ Review alerts (writing sites)
+ Singing in the shower
+ Hot chocolate
+ Rain
+ Music
+ Pizza
+ Stars
sometimes it hurts more to smile in front of everyone than to cry all alone
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by Seeshellz » Sun Jan 21, 2007 12:10 am
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PJ days
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diet pepsi
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reading a really good novel
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having your friend call you on the phone
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your kitty snuggling up to you
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hearing your piggy go "oink!"
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my teddy bear collection
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Winnie the Pooh
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pens with purple ink in them
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movies that make you cry
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hot coffee on a cold morning
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tea in the afternoon
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listening to your favourite CD
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walking in "crunchy" snow
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suprising a friend with a gift
"If you learn from your suffering,
and really come to understand the lesson you were taught,
you might be able to help someone else who's now
in the phase you may have just completed.
Maybe that's what it's all about after all..."
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by plantt » Wed Jan 24, 2007 4:21 am
favorite blanket smell
cats
having a day at school go better than expected
managing to get stuff done when there are doubts
corny tv shows
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by catylyx,ver.2 » Wed Jan 24, 2007 5:29 pm
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my little brother when he passes out from terrorizing us all day.
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my boyfriend when he's trying to concentrate on something. (the look on his face is priceless)
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Happy FunTime Gunther.
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falling asleep mushed against my boyfriends chest/side, nestled in the crook of his shoulder. (i'm tinyer than him)
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realizing that my favorite shirt/pants/pjs/etc.. are clean!
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goofing off at work.
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my rings *shrug* (i loff them)
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:redstar: Not Feeling Horrible and ED ish.
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by black_23 » Wed Jan 24, 2007 8:48 pm
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my little bro seeing snow for the first time
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picture of my and my b/f at her wedding
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hugs from my b/f
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smell of coffee
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reading a book from ages ago
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playing guitar with my dad, when its just us
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Listening my other bro when he's excitied about something he's done
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catching up with my mum when everythings calm
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woolly socks and my purple hat
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stripey tights!
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by acdcrocker1909 » Tue Jan 30, 2007 4:22 am
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My Kittie cats.
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Music.
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just hanging out in the bandroom at school.
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my pajamas.. i love being in pajamas.
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my band hoodie.. its really nice..
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my little cousin Kendall..she's adorable.. and my mini me..
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Coffee. Coffee keeps Dani nice and sane.
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Yummy tea.
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thunderstorms...
okay.. that's a big enough list for now..
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It does not do to dwell on dreams, and forget to live - APWBD.
Music is life.. we each have our own symphony.. and we control it for the most part.. sometimes instruments drop out.. and others join in.. but when the music fades and the symphony is done.. then we have created a beautiful, personal piece. - Me.
Less Traveled Roads <-- Everyone Welcome.
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by plantt » Sun Feb 18, 2007 6:47 am
cats
colorful sheets
avocado
making some dent in cleaning
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by steady hands » Sun Feb 18, 2007 6:58 am
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-watching all the snow from december finally melt
-origami stars
-knitting mohawk hats
-finally stopping coughing from bronchitis
-knowing i'm loved
-waiting for summer
-bayside in march <3
-waiting for my birthday
-eating normally
-wishing it would stop fucking snowing
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by wilson » Sun Feb 18, 2007 10:35 am
one of my friends back home knew i was upset. he called me and put me on speaker phone and sung "happy happy joy joy" off ren and stimpy
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R.I.P. 1953-2008
counting stars
im over existing in limbo
im over the myths and placebos
i dont really mind if i just fade away
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by Scatterbrain » Tue Feb 20, 2007 2:05 am
-going to bed and having the covers be warm and cozy
-flannel sheets!!
~Megan
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by neassa » Sat Feb 24, 2007 12:21 am
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my boyfriends little nephews dancing to the scissor sisters nd evan [2] barelling into me to give me a big hug
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chocolate
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my dad telling me i look nice out of nowhere
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seeing my friend that i love v much for the first time in ages
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falling asleep beside my boyfriend
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by Scaredy cat » Mon Mar 05, 2007 4:18 am
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When I drive past the doggy daycare and the dogs are out playing
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When my neice smiles or laughs at me
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When my friend surprises me at work with a visit
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The smell of a summer cookout
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When you try on a new sweatshirt and realize its the most comfortable thing in the world
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When it's finally warm enough to roll down the windows in your car, and at your house.
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by pretty » Wed Mar 07, 2007 8:08 pm
baked potatoes
people buying you chocolate because you haven't got enough money
watching dvds in bed
hot bubbley baths
art
day trips
warm feet
sunshine
random text messages
magazines
music
trains which are on time and have empty seats
bulbs
the feeling that spring is really near
'this is what she says gets her through it,
"if I don't let myself be happy now, then when?"' - jimmy eat world
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by StevieLynn » Thu Mar 08, 2007 5:04 pm
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Flying off a jump on my snowboard (even if I don't land the jump)
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Starting a new job on Monday
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E.V.
In Which Something Oooh Occurred
And it felt like a winter machine that you go through and then you catch your breath and winter starts again, and everyone else was springbound. And when I chose to live, there was no joy, it's just a line I crossed. I wasn't worth the pain my death would cost, so I was not lost or found....But when you live in a world, well, it gets in to who you th ought you'd be. And now I laugh at how the world changed me. I think life chose me after all.
--Dar Williams
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by cipher » Tue Apr 10, 2007 4:48 am
My job!! Ok maybe odd, but there it is...
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by catylyx,ver.2 » Tue Apr 10, 2007 4:35 pm
OTEP LIVE.
my boyfriends reactions to me being all hyper and crazy.
me and my bf snuggling at ihop after a night of moshing and crowd smushing.
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by Porcelain_Doll » Tue Apr 10, 2007 11:46 pm
Bass lessons.
Sunshine.
An old favorite song that you haven't heard in forever on the radio.
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