Right now I feel...

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Post by Lynds » Sun Jul 02, 2006 3:32 pm

Tired
Stressing out at how much preparation I have to do for work tomorrow
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Post by Quiet little Angel » Sun Jul 02, 2006 9:25 pm

numb, scared, insecure and unloved...
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Post by black_23 » Sun Jul 02, 2006 10:47 pm

Relieved I got through yesterday, but so scared.
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Post by green » Sun Jul 02, 2006 11:26 pm

kind of worried
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Post by SheShe27 » Mon Jul 03, 2006 5:18 am

:star: upset
:star: hurt
:star: depressed
:star: let down
:star: overwhelmed
:star: alone
:star: not understood
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Post by dont speak » Mon Jul 03, 2006 5:47 am

lonely. bored. craving.
You write such pretty words
But life's no story book
Love is an excuse to get hurt
And to hurt

Szeretem a zöld görögdinnyét sok malachússal és némi zöld kecsappal

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Post by Spidey » Mon Jul 03, 2006 7:04 am

hey folks

i understand that this is a place where you can say how you feel to let it out, and many a time everyone has negative feelings, but i am wondering if this thread could be used for some positive feelings as well?

to cope means to try to substitute something positive, something sustaining, for something that is negative and therefore bad and unsustainable. one of the focuses of this forum is to get you to look to creating a good place for yourself.

i would like everyone to step back for a moment and think of a good feeling that they have. even in the midst of negativity we can have at least one bright spot in our lives - so even if we feel fat, annoyed, ugly etc, we can also feel hopeful, determined, something. feelings are a chain and yes, they are connected, but you can feel different emotions for different things.

this is not to say that you can't post negative feelings if you have them -- i am saying to give a thought to challenging yourself to find a positive feeling.
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Post by green » Mon Jul 03, 2006 10:26 pm

^^if I can find a positive feeling I always try to post one ;)
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like I've been living on a cloud in my own little bubble for days and now suddenly it's burst.
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Post by Callisto » Tue Jul 04, 2006 12:24 pm

helpless
unloved
sad
paranoid
lonely

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Post by Stellaria » Wed Jul 05, 2006 2:34 am

peaceful
talkative
introspective
hungry for strawberries
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Post by Hisforever » Wed Jul 05, 2006 9:04 am

vulnerable
violated
unsafe

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Post by Lynds » Wed Jul 05, 2006 9:12 pm

Excited about seeing my bf

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Post by strmdncr » Thu Jul 06, 2006 5:04 pm

scrambled
confused
sleepy
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Post by Catylyx » Sat Jul 08, 2006 11:01 pm

cold...

drained again...

apprehensive and i don't know why...

but then again...

energetic,

and hopeful...
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Post by leemc77 » Sun Jul 09, 2006 12:48 am

frustrated

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Post by dont speak » Sun Jul 09, 2006 1:01 am

lonely. embarrased. mad.
You write such pretty words
But life's no story book
Love is an excuse to get hurt
And to hurt

Szeretem a zöld görögdinnyét sok malachússal és némi zöld kecsappal

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Post by balletomane » Wed Jul 12, 2006 4:48 am

tired. drained. sad.

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Post by lelijk lijk » Thu Jul 13, 2006 1:48 pm

hurt
lonely
broken

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Post by black_23 » Sun Jul 16, 2006 9:55 pm

Panicy
Little triggered but fighting
excited as i want to read my book.....
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Post by Spidey » Sun Jul 16, 2006 10:19 pm

tired
there is, in the end, the letting go.
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