tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.
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by plantt » Fri Jun 30, 2006 5:09 pm
--good conversations
--coffee
--avocadoes
--cats that follow you even when you're upsettedly wandering back & forth between rooms (even though they probably just wanted fed or played with
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by plantt » Sat Jul 01, 2006 5:02 am
having positive responses from people you've not been in contact with in ages
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by Oceanic » Sun Jul 02, 2006 4:08 am
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snail mail
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popsicles
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ancient stuffed animals
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new pens
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kids' smiles
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blueberries
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strawberries
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sunrise
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tiny sparkling earrings
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by plantt » Sun Jul 02, 2006 4:25 pm
music
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by cloggz » Sun Jul 02, 2006 5:11 pm
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Being with all your friends and people who you love.
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**hugs**
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People trying to cheer you up and failing miserably which cheers you up anyway.
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Eating a huge bar of chocolae and not feeling bad about it.
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Playin really loud music.
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Making other people smile.
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Holding hands.
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by ~Claire~ » Sun Jul 02, 2006 6:08 pm
The fact that summer is here!
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by Lynds » Sun Jul 02, 2006 9:02 pm
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Popping bubble wrap (so satisfying!)
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Little kids who want to tell you about stuff they like
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Listening to grown up people talking about something they are really passionate about
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When publishers send me free stuff at work
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When you get really drunk and think you can do anything
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by plantt » Mon Jul 03, 2006 6:38 pm
knowing that there's stuff to do.
getting stuff done.
cats.
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by Stellaria » Wed Jul 05, 2006 2:54 am
strawberries
sunrises
your favourite coffee mug
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by leemc77 » Sat Jul 08, 2006 6:45 pm
Getting a text message from your 14 year old neighbor (who you pretty much helped raise) that says I love you like you were my own sister.
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by leemc77 » Sun Jul 09, 2006 11:13 pm
Talking on the phone with my 6 year old niece!
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by Hisforever » Mon Jul 10, 2006 5:36 am
spending a weekend with just my Mom
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by plantt » Mon Jul 10, 2006 3:53 pm
--plans going better than expected
--doing something that really pleases people
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by Spidey » Mon Jul 10, 2006 7:54 pm
the fruits basket theme. ohgodsoprettyLKHJSDFKL:HSKJDFH
there is, in the end, the letting go.
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by black_23 » Mon Jul 10, 2006 11:47 pm
Talking to my brothers on the phone
Having a conversation that makes you smile for no reason
My warm soft top/ my old uni jumper
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by moll_drum » Fri Jul 14, 2006 6:33 am
music
dancing stupidly
hugs
kittens
letters and messages from people i love
books that make me laugh
rainy days
Gotta keep moving
cos it hurts if I stand still
can't start thinking
gotta find that strength of will
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by Catylyx » Sat Jul 15, 2006 8:54 pm
knowing that he wants to be with me. even with all the pros and cons.
getting a job!
talking to people i love.
Dancing around living room like a nerd when a song comes on.
<i>I am innocent and I have been set free
I no longer have chains around my feet
And no matter where I go or what they say
I am innocent</i> --Third Day
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by SarahBee » Sat Jul 15, 2006 9:26 pm
-Smiling so much it hurts
-When a friend at work has a reputation for catching cracked eggs you've missed drops an entire carton and breaks them.
-Long hugs
-Singing like no one is listening
-Dancing like a fool
-Wandering around outside
-Climbing trees
-Icecream
-Making stupid videos with your friends, then laughing about them later.
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"You were
water to me
deep and bold and fathoming....
You were
sunrise to me
rise and warm and streaming....
<b>Go to your wide futures, you said.</b>"
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by plantt » Sun Jul 16, 2006 4:23 am
being productive
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by balletomane » Sun Jul 16, 2006 7:04 am
-my friend gave me a teddy bear for my birthday and a dessert cookbook. She said she figured I could use the comforting things right now.
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