Hitting and coping. HELP

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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Hitting and coping. HELP

Post by Rebecca91 » Thu Jun 01, 2006 10:28 pm

I am a self injurer more fermilar with cutting but i havn't cut in 6 months today. I started hitting my self with things. Not to cut but just to hurt. I don't know how to deal with this.
Has any one had expierences with this form of SI.

If so i need help.
if my mom finds out I can't go to camp.

Camp is everything to me

Please advice

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Post by steady hands » Fri Jun 02, 2006 5:20 am


i'm not super experienced with hitting, but I do it sometimes when i'm angry.

maybe you could try different coping techniques, and see if any of those work. squeezing pillows, or throwing things work well for me. (but if you try the pony beads thing, put a blanket or something on the floor first, so you don't spend three hours trying to pick up and find all the little beads.) hope you find a good solution.

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Post by mallie » Fri Jun 02, 2006 4:16 pm

I do have experience with that form of SI, but I don't know how sharing that would help you.

What helped you overcome your urges to cut? Usually things that worked for one method of SI will work for others too.

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Post by Spidey » Fri Jun 02, 2006 7:45 pm

I have experience in that form of SI. But as Mallie said I don't know how my sharing experiences with that will help you.

Could you per chance look at the stickies here, or take a gander around the Coping forum to find new ways to cope? Go to Before and After and answer the questions there?

Challenge yourself. Find new and better ways of coping that aren't SI.

Good luck.
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