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is there anyone you truly love?

yes
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44%
no
4
11%
forever and always
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25%
not sure
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19%
 
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Post by squeegle_2419 » Sat May 27, 2006 3:52 am

Has anyone ever truly loved someone? Like loved them enough to die for them, someone that you just want to be near, someone who even just hearing their voicemail makes you happy, the sort of someone you could just look at each other and know exactly what they were trying to say????


I HAVE I LOVE YOU JESSI!!!!

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Post by Skyeler » Sat May 27, 2006 3:55 am

I love my wife.


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Post by b2753 » Sat May 27, 2006 3:47 pm

i love ~christian~ hes the one i love
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Post by Green Beauty » Sat May 27, 2006 7:57 pm

Yes. I would die for my girlfriend. Now. And forever.

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Post by Licentia Poetica » Sun May 28, 2006 11:36 am

I put not sure.

I thought I did.
Sometimes I still do.

Sometimes I think it's not love, just desperation & need.
Sometimes I think it's just lust.

Sometimes I think I need to wait until I sort myself out before I can ever love anyone.

But at the same time, there are people I would die for, there are people I can't live without, there are people I am living without that I can't live without.

Ie, it's too damn complicated.
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Post by NobodyToYou » Sun May 28, 2006 4:10 pm

I am also unsure if this is really love or not...I have cared enough to die for people. But for someone who is sometimes having SU thoughts anyway, that isn't so difficult. I have understood someone very well, known them better than anyone else. But I have never been "in love" with the happy feelings at being around them or the euphoria when you get reminded of them.
Some parts of what you asked last a lot longer than others. Some seem to apply only to romantic relationships but other can apply to other close relationships. So I am stuck in the "I don't know" catagory.

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Post by candiperfumegirl » Sun May 28, 2006 4:15 pm

i love my soon to be husband (two months to go). although he is frustrating as hell i would die for him. in fact i have never been in love before him
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Post by dbms » Mon May 29, 2006 3:24 am

Without question I love my children. It is the only time I am able to have that feeling. Strange with so many people around me there are only two in the world I really feel love for.

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Post by Jomomma » Mon May 29, 2006 5:55 am

I have and I still do.

I have people in my life that I care enough for that I woudl die for them without question. It matters not to me whether they feel the same to me. I still care enough to put someone elses life before mine
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Post by Spidey » Mon May 29, 2006 6:11 am

yes.
there is, in the end, the letting go.
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Post by April » Mon May 29, 2006 11:17 am

I'm in love.

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Post by rosie605 » Tue May 30, 2006 6:48 am

I love my husband more and more each day :D
But the struggles make you stronger
And the changes make you wise
And happiness has its own way of takin it's sweet time
No, life aint always beautiful
Tears will fall sometimes
Life aint always beautiful
But it's a beautiful ride

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Post by Scatterbrain » Tue May 30, 2006 10:40 pm

I put not sure. There are times when I feel that I love my boyfriend. He is the perfect guy that I could see myself marrying eventually. Other times, I dont want to see him, or I talk myself out of loving him. There have been several times that I have almost broken up with him because I feel that he should not have be with someone who is so "screwed up"... I dunno, I'm just rambling.
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Post by balletomane » Wed May 31, 2006 6:21 am

no.

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Post by Quiet little Angel » Wed May 31, 2006 4:12 pm

not that long ago i would have said yes... without blinking... but now... well i'm not so sure...
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Post by catapiller » Wed May 31, 2006 4:15 pm

yes.
I don't care if it hurts,
I wanna have control
I want a perfect body
I want a perfect soul

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