tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.
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Poya Maitri
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by Poya Maitri » Fri Dec 09, 2005 8:08 pm
good job, shattered!
i am proud of myself today for getting up and doing something when i don't feel good and would rather just hide away from the world.

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by flipflopfetish » Wed Dec 14, 2005 3:41 am
Yay Poya!!!
I'm proud of myself because I managed not to feel threatened and unloved in a harmless situation (where I normally would've)
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by pointeless » Wed Dec 14, 2005 3:35 pm
I love reading this thread,it's great everyones really achieving stuff to make themselves proud
I'm proud of myself today because I practiced pointe and I think i'm improving

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by acdcrocker1909 » Thu Dec 15, 2005 4:32 am
wheee! Go Poya!
I'm proud of myself that even though my day was hell (with the exception of lunch).. I grasped onto that one good thing then and made it though the entire day without harming myself.
It does not do to dwell on dreams, and forget to live - APWBD.
Music is life.. we each have our own symphony.. and we control it for the most part.. sometimes instruments drop out.. and others join in.. but when the music fades and the symphony is done.. then we have created a beautiful, personal piece. - Me.
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by Guest » Thu Dec 15, 2005 1:05 pm
Go dani, im proud of you
OIm proud of me for going to my teacher and asking her advice when i normally would run away from a situation like that
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by smr89 » Sat Dec 17, 2005 6:35 am
smr89
"No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, He will also provide a way out so that you can stand under it."
1 Corinthians 10:13
God bless our troops! I love you guys! You are my heros!
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by treasure » Tue Dec 20, 2005 11:11 am
i'm proud of myself today because i got out of bed when i still wanted to sleep and got to my T appt. i am proud of myself for having sore shoulders cos i carried home heavy shopping last night and i dealt with the frustration (and pain) without si.
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Poya Maitri
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by Poya Maitri » Tue Dec 20, 2005 5:56 pm
good job, treasure and sm89!
i am proud of myself because i made
breakfast this morning. i know it sounds
like such a little thing, but i haven't been
eating well lately, and i had the oppor-
tunity to just veg out this morning, but
i didn't do that, i got up and made a
healthy breakfast.
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red umbrellas
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by red umbrellas » Wed Dec 21, 2005 12:47 pm
well done poya
i'm proud of myself because i actually got out of bed this morning
because i'm trying hard to work on my history essay
because i managed to get through last night which was hell in a nutshell
It's all life and fire and lunacy
And excuses and excuses and excuses
Hold On To Yourself - Nick Cave & The Bad Seeds
"We paint a picture of a scenario - and then we become afraid of it" - Andrea Fella
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sonik_tooth_fairy
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by sonik_tooth_fairy » Mon Jan 02, 2006 3:41 pm
wow! you have beenworking hard
today i am proud of myself because i told my mum about my SI
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by Twitter Mouse » Mon Jan 02, 2006 3:48 pm
sonik: good job! that must have been very difficult.
I'm proud because
-I got up and am at school even though I don't feel well
-Got through last night safely
And it's hey babe, with your guardian eyes so blue,
Hey my baby, don't you know our love is true,
I've been so far from here,
Far from your loving arms,
Now I'm back again, and babe it's gonna work out fine.
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by acdcrocker1909 » Tue Jan 03, 2006 3:16 am
Yay Twitter!! I'm proud of ya!!
I'm proud of myself because I have went 15 days without smoking!
It does not do to dwell on dreams, and forget to live - APWBD.
Music is life.. we each have our own symphony.. and we control it for the most part.. sometimes instruments drop out.. and others join in.. but when the music fades and the symphony is done.. then we have created a beautiful, personal piece. - Me.
Less Traveled Roads <-- Everyone Welcome.

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yuxi
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by yuxi » Tue Jan 03, 2006 3:21 am

15 Fucking days! I don't make it even 15 hours!
I'm proud because I cant find any feelings (through I search and search) for a former "lover" i happend to have sex with on new years eve (two days ago). I thought I would have some sort of "affection backlash" it it ever happend again, but no, it was just realy good sex.
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by acdcrocker1909 » Wed Jan 04, 2006 1:06 am
Whee!! Yay Yuxi!
I'm proud of myself for two reasons today..
-Even though I was nervous as hell before Musical auditions, I did not smoke one cigarette.. so that's 16 days for Dani.
-I think I did really well in auditions, and I'm really happy about that!
It does not do to dwell on dreams, and forget to live - APWBD.
Music is life.. we each have our own symphony.. and we control it for the most part.. sometimes instruments drop out.. and others join in.. but when the music fades and the symphony is done.. then we have created a beautiful, personal piece. - Me.
Less Traveled Roads <-- Everyone Welcome.

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by Colimbi » Wed Jan 04, 2006 1:29 am
I am proud of myself because
I broke down and still:
1. I'm getting better at being truthfull and asking for help when I crack.
2. When I ran away and hid to cry I was still able to let both my boyfriend and one of my friend hear me through the door.
3. I really kept breathing whilst I cried.
4. I let my boyfriend enter the room even when I hadn't composed myself.
5. I let him see me break down again.
Then we all helped eachother, got some work done. We took today of from the essay and went to the movies (King Kong)
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by amerylis » Sat Jan 14, 2006 10:45 pm
after a day at work i dont want to SI.

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by Callisto » Sun Jan 15, 2006 1:43 am
well done amerylis
i am proud of going food shopping today and buying what i need rather than as little as possible
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by pointeless » Sun Jan 15, 2006 2:13 am
way to go guys!
I'm proud of myself today because after I fell apart and had my tearful hysterical 20 mintues, I picked up the pieces,dusted myself off, and kept going instead of giving in
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by acdcrocker1909 » Mon Jan 16, 2006 3:40 am
Good Job pointless.
I'm proud of myself because today marks 4 wks smokefree!
It does not do to dwell on dreams, and forget to live - APWBD.
Music is life.. we each have our own symphony.. and we control it for the most part.. sometimes instruments drop out.. and others join in.. but when the music fades and the symphony is done.. then we have created a beautiful, personal piece. - Me.
Less Traveled Roads <-- Everyone Welcome.

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