I'm proud of myself today because....

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Post by Poya Maitri » Fri Dec 09, 2005 8:08 pm

good job, shattered! :star:

i am proud of myself today for getting up and doing something when i don't feel good and would rather just hide away from the world. :)

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Post by flipflopfetish » Wed Dec 14, 2005 3:41 am

Yay Poya!!! :gooddeal:

I'm proud of myself because I managed not to feel threatened and unloved in a harmless situation (where I normally would've)

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Post by pointeless » Wed Dec 14, 2005 3:35 pm

I love reading this thread,it's great everyones really achieving stuff to make themselves proud :)

I'm proud of myself today because I practiced pointe and I think i'm improving :roll:
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Post by Poya Maitri » Wed Dec 14, 2005 5:30 pm

:dkpurpstar: :bluestar: :grnstar: :ylwstar: :star: :redstar: way to go! good for you!

i am proud of myself today because even though i felt like $#@! when i woke up, i didn't give in to it, i tried to reach out for help thru spirituality, and then i got myself up, and did what i needed to do. and i ended up having a good morning with my son despite how awful i felt upon waking.

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Post by acdcrocker1909 » Thu Dec 15, 2005 4:32 am

wheee! Go Poya!



I'm proud of myself that even though my day was hell (with the exception of lunch).. I grasped onto that one good thing then and made it though the entire day without harming myself.
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Post by Guest » Thu Dec 15, 2005 1:05 pm

Go dani, im proud of you :blush:

OIm proud of me for going to my teacher and asking her advice when i normally would run away from a situation like that

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Post by smr89 » Sat Dec 17, 2005 6:35 am

Good job everybody!!!! :D :D :D :D :D :D

-I'm proud of myself because I managed to keep him off my mind for most of the day and when he was on mind or when I talked about him it was mostly positive. Thats a big improvement.
-I just thought it and I think I was actually happy today (for the most part. I did get mad in Wal-Mart because of too many people but we all know how Wal-Mart is so that doesn't count. :wink: ) Sweet!!!!
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Post by treasure » Tue Dec 20, 2005 11:11 am

i'm proud of myself today because i got out of bed when i still wanted to sleep and got to my T appt. i am proud of myself for having sore shoulders cos i carried home heavy shopping last night and i dealt with the frustration (and pain) without si.
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Post by Poya Maitri » Tue Dec 20, 2005 5:56 pm

good job, treasure and sm89! :D

i am proud of myself because i made
breakfast this morning. i know it sounds
like such a little thing, but i haven't been
eating well lately, and i had the oppor-
tunity to just veg out this morning, but
i didn't do that, i got up and made a
healthy breakfast.

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Post by red umbrellas » Wed Dec 21, 2005 12:47 pm

well done poya :)

i'm proud of myself because i actually got out of bed this morning
because i'm trying hard to work on my history essay
because i managed to get through last night which was hell in a nutshell
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Post by sonik_tooth_fairy » Mon Jan 02, 2006 3:41 pm

wow! you have beenworking hard
today i am proud of myself because i told my mum about my SI

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Post by Twitter Mouse » Mon Jan 02, 2006 3:48 pm

sonik: good job! that must have been very difficult.

I'm proud because
-I got up and am at school even though I don't feel well
-Got through last night safely
And it's hey babe, with your guardian eyes so blue,
Hey my baby, don't you know our love is true,
I've been so far from here,
Far from your loving arms,
Now I'm back again, and babe it's gonna work out fine.

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Post by acdcrocker1909 » Tue Jan 03, 2006 3:16 am

Yay Twitter!! I'm proud of ya!!

I'm proud of myself because I have went 15 days without smoking!
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Post by yuxi » Tue Jan 03, 2006 3:21 am

:o 15 Fucking days! I don't make it even 15 hours! :o

I'm proud because I cant find any feelings (through I search and search) for a former "lover" i happend to have sex with on new years eve (two days ago). I thought I would have some sort of "affection backlash" it it ever happend again, but no, it was just realy good sex.

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Post by acdcrocker1909 » Wed Jan 04, 2006 1:06 am

Whee!! Yay Yuxi!


I'm proud of myself for two reasons today..

-Even though I was nervous as hell before Musical auditions, I did not smoke one cigarette.. so that's 16 days for Dani.

-I think I did really well in auditions, and I'm really happy about that!
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Post by Colimbi » Wed Jan 04, 2006 1:29 am

I am proud of myself because
I broke down and still:

1. I'm getting better at being truthfull and asking for help when I crack.
2. When I ran away and hid to cry I was still able to let both my boyfriend and one of my friend hear me through the door.
3. I really kept breathing whilst I cried.
4. I let my boyfriend enter the room even when I hadn't composed myself.
5. I let him see me break down again.

Then we all helped eachother, got some work done. We took today of from the essay and went to the movies (King Kong)

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Post by amerylis » Sat Jan 14, 2006 10:45 pm

after a day at work i dont want to SI. :)
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Post by Callisto » Sun Jan 15, 2006 1:43 am

well done amerylis

i am proud of going food shopping today and buying what i need rather than as little as possible

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Post by pointeless » Sun Jan 15, 2006 2:13 am

way to go guys!

I'm proud of myself today because after I fell apart and had my tearful hysterical 20 mintues, I picked up the pieces,dusted myself off, and kept going instead of giving in
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Post by acdcrocker1909 » Mon Jan 16, 2006 3:40 am

Good Job pointless.

I'm proud of myself because today marks 4 wks smokefree!
It does not do to dwell on dreams, and forget to live - APWBD.


Music is life.. we each have our own symphony.. and we control it for the most part.. sometimes instruments drop out.. and others join in.. but when the music fades and the symphony is done.. then we have created a beautiful, personal piece. - Me.

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