<3 okay this is guy troubles <3
and i know its stupid but why cant i be stronger, i knew nothing could happen cos he lived to far away, so why am i shocked he doesnt like me. i feel physically sick, co i really liked him. it happens all the time, but i lost my V with this guy and that was on sunday and suddenly im gone! he wants to be mates but i dont see him as that. and its not his fault, he cant help who he likes... i just... need something to cry on...
how come i cant help my self?
Why arent i stronger?
I feel So Stupid
I feel So Stupid
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SouthernComfort
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awww, *hug* some guys are like that, and go just for, well, sex. There are a million guys in the world, and one that makes you so upset, isn't worth your time.
I know you're hurting, and it sucks. But it'll get better!
As far as you and him being mates and all, if you dont feel like it would be possible, or if you feel it cause trauma for you, dont try it.
I really dont know what else to say, I hope things get better hun
I know you're hurting, and it sucks. But it'll get better!
As far as you and him being mates and all, if you dont feel like it would be possible, or if you feel it cause trauma for you, dont try it.
I really dont know what else to say, I hope things get better hun
Every long lost dream led me to where you are
Others who broke my heart they were like northern stars
Pointing me on my way into your loving arms
This much I know is true
That God blessed the broken road
That led me straight to you
Others who broke my heart they were like northern stars
Pointing me on my way into your loving arms
This much I know is true
That God blessed the broken road
That led me straight to you
I know how this feels like. The same thing happened to me.
I have to agree with SouthernComfort, he is not worth your time. I know it doesn'y feel like that right now, perhaps you still hope he will change his mind. But do you really want to be with a guy who hurts you like this? I am sure you are worth a lot more!
Hope things will get easier. Take some time, and remember it's okay to feel sad and cry about it. But don't think any less of yourself for what happened, or for being upset about it!
hope you'll feel better soon
I have to agree with SouthernComfort, he is not worth your time. I know it doesn'y feel like that right now, perhaps you still hope he will change his mind. But do you really want to be with a guy who hurts you like this? I am sure you are worth a lot more!
Hope things will get easier. Take some time, and remember it's okay to feel sad and cry about it. But don't think any less of yourself for what happened, or for being upset about it!
hope you'll feel better soon
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DecemberLivy
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saffie- you lost your V?
when? you were with us the whole saturday, i'm confused
why did you bunk off on friday? miss martinez found out and she's furious,
anyway, see you at greenday tonight- if you come
byeeee
when? you were with us the whole saturday, i'm confused
why did you bunk off on friday? miss martinez found out and she's furious,
anyway, see you at greenday tonight- if you come
byeeee
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NobodyToYou
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I think it is perfectly understandable why you would be upset. You gave this guy something special...your affection, your virginity, your hopes for the future. And he didn't treat that as something special...That is going to hurt. No way around it. So please don't think there is something wrong with you or that you shouldn't feel this way. There is nothing wrong. He led you to believe that he might like you, you liked him, and now those hopes and fun feelings are gone. You have a right to be sad, and angry, and disappointed.
It is your choice if you think you can be friends with him after this. You don't have to feel bad if you think that is not a good idea for you. Do what you need to do to take care of yourself.
You are worth taking care of.
It is your choice if you think you can be friends with him after this. You don't have to feel bad if you think that is not a good idea for you. Do what you need to do to take care of yourself.
You are worth taking care of.
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