no one understands

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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green leaf
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no one understands

Post by green leaf » Fri Mar 04, 2005 2:55 am

hi,
I have just joined. I have tried to talk to my friends about this but they don't understand and think I am just SM for attention. But I don’t. I blame myself when ppl treat me badly. I start crying. I wanted to know if anyone has any points on how I could stop SM or deal with my problems in another way.
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Kenya_bloostone
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Post by Kenya_bloostone » Fri Mar 04, 2005 3:01 am

First off welcome here is your welcome cow :cowsleep: Second there is lots of coping techniques on this site in the coping forum. I personally go play online games or talk to someone either online or in real life. tends to help because I wont SI when people are around or in ear shot. if you need to talk just message me on YIM or AIM and I'll get back to ya.
Here's a hug for ya if it is okay :1grhug: :1hug3: :1hug:
~Kenya~

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erinmv
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Post by erinmv » Tue Mar 08, 2005 1:42 am

Welcome! I found this board when I was at my worst and I can honestly say that the friends I found on here really helped me with my SI. Read the posts and tips for coping. Also if you aren't in therapy, I would start. Most importantly, you need to try to find a new way to cope. And there are lots of ideas here on this board. If you need anything, we're all here. You can PM me if you want.
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Post by ~dark~star~ » Tue Mar 08, 2005 1:14 pm

heya welcome have a :cowsleep:
the people on here are fab they will help you loads = well they helped me n e way.
i write letters to people that annoy me or that i want to aim my anger at not to end to them but to have as an outlet for my pain dnt know if it will work for u but i hope that it does.
pm if u need to talk ill always reply. xXx
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