tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.
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plantt
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by plantt » Tue Nov 30, 2004 10:13 pm
--getting nice pm's
--finding out that a future situation has more options & isn't as hopeless as you first thought it might be
--making it to work
--having the phone still work
--turnip
--skittles
--finding nice & helpful replies in place after being offline

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dreams
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by dreams » Tue Nov 30, 2004 11:09 pm

when people leave a reply in your place and yuor not expecting one

when your friends make it clear they care without being to pushy with the 'how are you really' comments
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by plantt » Thu Dec 02, 2004 2:19 am
--appointments going better than expected
--making it to work
--getting things done that need done
--orange jello

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by plantt » Sun Dec 05, 2004 8:22 pm
--getting a return email from my old advisor... saying that he's willing to talk with me & see me regardless of whether or not i go to that school
--t calling back & leaving voicemail
--coffee
--nice smelling body spray
--kitties
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by plantt » Sun Dec 12, 2004 8:08 pm
--cats
--coffee
--a favorite blanket

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by plantt » Thu Dec 23, 2004 10:03 am
--noodles with cheese
--knowing eventually the holidays will be over
--believing that eventually life will be more how i want it to be

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by sug160489 » Fri Dec 24, 2004 5:13 am

laying on the grass looking at the stars/clouds

dolphins in the water at sunset

Zombie Sarah
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by plantt » Sat Dec 25, 2004 9:46 pm
--knowing that you did something effective even though it felt nearly impossible
--bouncy music

--snuggly kitties who pretend to love me

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by Laura » Sun Dec 26, 2004 12:33 am
I like it how teabags sometimes inflate as you pour the hot water onto them.

Laura

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Agarwaen
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by Agarwaen » Thu Jan 13, 2005 9:27 am
- mangos
- crying smilies (oxymoron! but hey, they make me laugh)
- seeing rainbows in random places (pride!)
- books
- pics of pensive Louis
- sad-eyed pics of Frodo/Sam
- purple-haired people
- rain
- hearing cellos...*spasm*
"Those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music."
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roseblum15
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by roseblum15 » Thu Jan 13, 2005 8:22 pm
hot chocolate with whipped cream
my kitty
getting phone calls or e-mails I don't expect
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marylou
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by marylou » Mon Jan 17, 2005 12:41 pm

Finishing an exam, and not caring about the result for a while

Chocolate rice-crispie cakes

Watching friends try to learn how to backflip

Playing the piano really loudly in the church with amazing acoustics

Lying on D's couch, not having to do anything

Good hair days
"You loosen my chains and just ask me to trust you. But it's so much easier this way, even though I know that I am bound."
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by plantt » Sat Jan 22, 2005 5:30 am
cats
nice smelly things
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marylou
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by marylou » Sat Jan 22, 2005 10:30 am
Putting on really soft socks

"You loosen my chains and just ask me to trust you. But it's so much easier this way, even though I know that I am bound."
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Boris
- sprouting branches

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by Boris » Sun Jan 23, 2005 2:55 am
people who do the little stars in this so that they're alternating colours.
girls in white dresses with blue satin sashes, snowflakes that stay on my nose and eyelashes, brown paper packages tied up with strings...(sorry, couldnt' resist)
waking up in the morning when you've gone to bed the previous night feeling crummy, and waking up to realize that it's sunny out and you feel better.
fuzzy scarves.
getting phone calls from people who you haven't heard from in a while.
"Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." ~ Dr. Seuss
...long enough without slips that I've lost track. We can all get there, one way or another!
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by WoundedAngel » Tue Jan 25, 2005 11:55 pm
Okay here mine:

Dancing in the rain

Kitties

Hugs

Rachel

Falling in love

The Used, goo goo dolls, and linkin park ^.^

um......FREE FOOD!!!!!!!!! ^.^
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by Harlequin_Tears » Wed Jan 26, 2005 8:36 pm
Boris wrote:.
girls in white dresses with blue satin sashes, snowflakes that stay on my nose and eyelashes, brown paper packages tied up with strings...(sorry, couldnt' resist)
LMAO

Violin lessons

Candy

Planning my vacation

Alan

My mouse, Anubis

Fuzzy Blankets

Watching X-Files

Hearing snow crunch

The moon

A new box of pencils/colored pencils
"And if the darkness should have swallowed me as you read this, you must never think there was the possibility of some secret intervention, something you might have done."
~The X-Files
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by broken_annabelle » Thu Jan 27, 2005 10:16 am

pidgeons all puffed up from the cold weather

hearing a good song on the radio

emoticons

chocolate
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by plantt » Thu Jan 27, 2005 10:58 pm
--chocolate cake with sprinkles
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by plantt » Tue Feb 08, 2005 6:10 pm
--coffee
--getting a paper turned in
--noticing changes that you rather like

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