i'm new and need help.

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

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i'm new and need help.

Post by tdf16 » Mon Nov 29, 2004 3:23 am

hi, i'm katie and am new here.

i definately need help. i have been si for 5 years now. i have trust issues with just about everyone i come in contact with, including myself. i have tried several times to call a hotline, but i cannot get myself to do it. i'm very scared to take that next step, but at the same time i really want to. i do have one friend that i can confide in. she is one of the reasons i joined this.

it has been about a week since i have si, which is unbelievavle for me. however, the urges are becoming frequent. i just want to stop, and not have to worry about this. and i dont know what to do anymore.
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Post by Helpmeundrstnd » Mon Nov 29, 2004 6:24 am

Hey Katie, I'm Mel and I'm here if u want to talk. My IM's are all below.
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Post by marylou » Mon Nov 29, 2004 5:22 pm

Hey! Welcome to BUS, it's one of the most helpful and scary things you can do, congratulations!!
And congratulations on going a week without SH. That's great :D :D :D

I've got big trust issues to, so your in good company :wink:
Take care of yourself and pm me anytime.
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Post by Zebraseal » Mon Nov 29, 2004 6:46 pm

Hello Katie, and welcome to Bus!

Whatever you're in the middle of, you can get loads of support here at Bus. Anyway, a hotline sounds like a good start in your situation. You sound like you could use some professional help, like a lot of people here do, including me.
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Post by 8586 » Mon Nov 29, 2004 8:04 pm

Hey there.

Welcome to bus, this place is filled with caring people who know how you're feeling, so you'll never be alone.

I hope you get what you need here.

Congrats on your week - that's really wonderful. Keep hanging in there. It'll get easier for you.

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