Self-Control

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Do you have a lot of self control?

Yes, I have self - control
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No, I do no thave self - control
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It depends on the situation
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27%
It depends on the mood I'm in
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38%
 
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Self-Control

Post by Bathelina » Sat Nov 27, 2004 11:10 am

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Just a question about self control. Do you have much self control? In rushed situations or situations of panic can you control your actions?
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Post by TwistedVision » Sat Nov 27, 2004 12:48 pm

lol, depends on the mood... i can ussually easily control myself... but every now and then i slip far enough that i just dont care... if that makes sence

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Post by Bathelina » Sat Nov 27, 2004 1:10 pm

Yeah, it does make sense, I think it's the same with me, but I do have quite a lot of self control. I put "it depends on the situation", I think.
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Post by sassy koala » Sat Nov 27, 2004 3:29 pm

with the exception of controlling myeating habits, I have control. I have to. If i don't my world just flies to pieces. :-?

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Post by Eowyn » Sat Nov 27, 2004 4:48 pm

I put that it depends on the situation, though it depends on my mood too. My main way of coping and trying not to SI is simple will power. Sometimes that's enough, but a lot of the time it fails and I really beat myself up about it.

I have quite a lot of issues with control. I hate feeling out of control and strive for control in anything I can. I can control myself in some ways expertly, like in how I SI, but in other ways I'm totally out of control, and sometimes things like SI, implemented for control, can become what control me.
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Post by i_have_a_secret » Sat Nov 27, 2004 5:20 pm

i have sefl contorl when ever i wnat it but sometimes it's whearther i have the courage that you need to know.
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Post by Bateau ivre » Sat Nov 27, 2004 7:55 pm

I have a great amount of self-control over my actions, but none over my thoughts.
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Post by Zebraseal » Sun Nov 28, 2004 12:34 am

Does ANYBODY have control ever their thoughts?


I have self-control. I'm very much of a control freak and trying to learn to let go a little and relax...
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Post by treasure » Mon Nov 29, 2004 8:26 am

for a diff opinion... :) i don't think i have much self-control. i put "depends on my mood" cos some moods i can control myself and some i can't.
thoughts ARE mostly out of my control but how you react to the thoughts in your head or whatever is important (like thinking about something a lot and blowing it out of proportion)
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Post by limestone » Mon Nov 29, 2004 10:11 am

self control for what?

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