Everytime..

tips on how to cope: dealing with your feelings, dealing with the consequences of self-harm in your life. share your ideas and maybe pick up some new skills, too. you don't have to want to stop to learn something new here.

Moderators: Spidey, noldo

Post Reply
User avatar
stripin_hate
one of us
one of us
Posts: 12
Joined: Fri May 14, 2004 9:50 pm

Everytime..

Post by stripin_hate » Thu Oct 28, 2004 12:57 am

when i listen to the song Everytime by Britney Spears it makes me wan to cut so badly :cry:...At the school they played thta song and I just wanted to die.. Has this happened to anyone else
Top
User avatar
kwisten
meeting the neighbors
meeting the neighbors
Posts: 485
Joined: Fri Dec 05, 2003 8:31 pm
Location: YEE-HAW HOWDY from oklahoma
Contact:
Contact kwisten

Post by kwisten » Thu Oct 28, 2004 9:00 pm

Not with that song, but with avril levign's Im with you, yeah it does cause that was playing the first time i cut, i now make sure im really safe if im gonna listen to it, when it comes on the radio i get kinda spacy and all thinky.
"Do i stress you out? my sweater is on backwards and inside out and you say how appropriate"~Alanis Morressette

"Sometimes i feel like in a lake filled with regular trout and all swimming together and im the only rainbow trout doing flips and such"

"WORDS KRISTEN WORDS!"~the best of all friends!
Top
User avatar
Bathelina
part of the fixtures
part of the fixtures
Posts: 2683
Joined: Sat Sep 18, 2004 5:56 pm
Location: London UK

Post by Bathelina » Fri Oct 29, 2004 9:33 pm

Yeah; it's a very triggery song. I also get that when I listen to "Crawl" by Alkaline Trio. It's strange... music is one of the main things that triggers me.

Hannah :)
<center>

the girl who blocked her own shot

I want to be better than oxygen.

</center>
Top
User avatar
libby
unpacking boxes
unpacking boxes
Posts: 39
Joined: Fri Oct 29, 2004 6:42 pm
Location: England

Post by libby » Fri Oct 29, 2004 9:39 pm

I think most people have songs like that. I don't strangely enough, because most songs do trigger some emotion in me, but none trigger SI

Actually, everytime cheers me up for some weird reason.

But I can totally see why it might make you feel worse. From my knowledge of associated memories, it might help if you start trying to listen to your trigger song or, at least, thinking about a couple of the lines in a safe happy place.

That way you might diminish the trigger-effect of it and it means if it comes on in public, at school or whatever, it will have less of an effect.

Only a suggestion though. :) Feel free to ignore it! lol!
Top
Post Reply

Return to “coping”

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 19 guests