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Chrissy333
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Post by Chrissy333 » Mon Aug 09, 2004 11:15 pm

Hello,

Douse anyone think that friends are the best thing in the world to them? I know without my online friends and school friends i would not make it. To all of my friends on here i would like to thank you for all you have done.For all of the nights that i came to you with my problems thank you for being there and for listing.You are the one and only reason that i have made it this far.I will always be thank full.
:) Thank You :)
Rose
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Post by invisble kid » Tue Aug 10, 2004 1:01 am

I am glad that you are my friend to and that I am able to be there for you. I am sure you will do the same for me in the future. I am so glad u are my friend. I will be here if you ever need me.
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Your friend Steven
“I push my fingers into my eyes
It’s the only thing that slowly stop the ache
But its made of all the things I have to take
if this pain goes on Im not going to make it”
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How f@*%ed things can be.
Everytime I get ahead.
I feel more dead."
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Post by pistachio » Tue Aug 10, 2004 6:42 pm

yeah, friends are really important to me. i dont know how i'd be able to make it without them. they, to me, are incredibly nessecary.

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Post by somegirlu_know » Tue Aug 10, 2004 8:36 pm

I spent my entire summer without friends. I went out to places by myself, that includes dances and raves. And I was feeling okay, you know. But I think I spent too much time with my parents. We went on road trips together, etc.
Anyway, what I am getting at is... having friends is necessary.

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Post by Strange_And_Beautiful » Tue Aug 10, 2004 10:40 pm

I know that I love all my friends more than my family and I don't know what I'd do without them. I thank you though for putting up with me and I'm glad that we became friends. You made a difference in my life because I feel like I have something else to live for. Take care,
~Terra
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Post by random idiot » Wed Aug 11, 2004 4:23 am

My best friend means more to me then anyone else in my life. I'd be lost without her, I know if I ever need her she'd be there. I don't think i'd be alive now if I didn't have her.

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Post by Diamond Dog » Fri Aug 27, 2004 10:58 pm

I know what you mean.

The negative side is though, that your friends can also hurt you more than anyone.

But ignore me, my friends meant the world to me and now they're gone forever. :(
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But you're falling anyway."

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Post by Prymael » Wed Sep 01, 2004 3:06 am

(May be triggery...)


Unfortunately, I think my friends are slipping away from me and I don't know what to do about it...I'm for the most part older than them physically, but mentally I feel like I'm so far behind them when it comes to things that I want to do. Now more and more I find myself pushing them away from me. I spend as much time as possible just driving around or being somewhere. I'm so insecure and have no self-esteem and the only reason I have the friends I do where I am is because when my family was here, my little brother always had his friends over and eventually they started liking to hang around me also when they figured out I liked to do some of the same things they did...Its been a few years since then and they're growing up without me...They mostly have girlfriends and boyfriends that hang around together when we're all having a gathering, so I really feel left out like its a couples thing only. The last time I was blessed with someone who allowed me to call her mygirlfriend was five years ago. I don't think there's anyone else out there that will accept me for who I am as a whole, physically and mentally.

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Post by Boris » Thu Sep 02, 2004 3:41 am

my friends definitely mean so much to me, i've never ever found a way to tell them how special they are, they are much too incredible for words!!!
"Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." ~ Dr. Seuss

...long enough without slips that I've lost track. We can all get there, one way or another!

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