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by Addygrl
Sat Feb 11, 2006 9:51 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: who are you right now? *lang trigs*
Replies: 419
Views: 29065

Thought I'd give this a try too :) i am... Strong Determined Sad Smart Emotional A Perfectionist i am not... Weak a 'cutter' a bad person unimportant a nuisance i feel... Frustrated Sad tired proud bad alone i want... to tell everyone the truth to not want to hurt myself any more to be a strong pers...
by Addygrl
Fri Feb 10, 2006 7:18 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Visual thoughts? **SI, SU, violence**
Replies: 67
Views: 3294

Hey, I know this post is on the older side, but i just wanted to post because I completely relate. Ever since I can remember, when I've been stressed I've visualized being injured by other people (perhaps a desire to be victimized?). I find imagining being repeatedly hit over the head with a large o...
by Addygrl
Wed Dec 28, 2005 3:25 am
Forum: coping
Topic: coping questionnaire
Replies: 76
Views: 23525

I know this is an old thread, but I thought it could be beneficial to fill out, as well as a coping method in itself :D Do you use coping methods (healthy ones... ) in combination or just on their own? - I use them often on their own, though listening to music I've found to be helpful, and I'll some...
by Addygrl
Tue Dec 27, 2005 5:05 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Instrumental Piano Music as a Coping Method...
Replies: 5
Views: 240

I definitly agree with the piano suggestion. I actually play piano (thanks to the parents making me take lessons when I was younger), and I absolutly love music by David Lanz to help me calm down. Another composer I'm almost certain you would enjoy is Jim Brickman...his stuff is soo soothing, he has...
by Addygrl
Mon Dec 26, 2005 8:12 am
Forum: coping
Topic: How do you feel about your scars?
Replies: 113
Views: 7875

I dont' have many scars, the only one that is usually uncovered, on my wrist, doesn't look at all like it was from SI, so no one ever notices that one. The ones on my leg are rarely seen, and I've just come up with lame (but somehow believable excuses) for them, such as...I had a gardening accident ...
by Addygrl
Tue Oct 04, 2005 12:40 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Reasons to stop SI
Replies: 4
Views: 141

Reasons not to SI Because I have many friends that care about me Because my family loves me Because I need to remember the amount that I hurt when my friends are in pain, and realize that I give that pain to my friends when I SI Because I don’t like to be a burden on anyone else Because I want to da...
by Addygrl
Tue Oct 04, 2005 12:38 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Reasons to stop SI
Replies: 4
Views: 141

Reasons to stop SI

After telling a good friend about SI and having an amazingly wonderful reaction (he told me "I just want to tell you ____(my full name)____ that I love you as a friend and I will always care about you no matter what", and is driving over (he lives a few cities away) to take me out on a date on frida...