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by bellaclare
Sun Aug 14, 2005 11:29 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Would you get rid of your scars?
Replies: 17
Views: 684

What an awesome offer! But I've been under the knife a few times for joint surgeries, and even though plastic surgery has minimal scarring, you could still end up with scars from the surgery. What I wouldn't give to get rid of the 9 inch scar on my knee! But consider what those scars mean to you--do...
by bellaclare
Tue Aug 09, 2005 1:26 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Bitch Fest / Things Left Unsaid II *LA*
Replies: 421
Views: 22749

from my ex: I'm so sorry for pushing you away. I'm so sorry for being so closed off. I'm so sorry for killing myself and I'd do anything to come back. I knew it was selfish and I did it anyway, but I never thought you'd be going through this living hell. Sorry sorry sorry sorry and I'd do anything t...
by bellaclare
Tue Aug 09, 2005 1:22 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Telling people you were/are depressed
Replies: 6
Views: 368

I always knew I had depression--both of my parents have been treated for it as well as a sister. But I guess I was stubborn and wouldn't admit it and just dealt with it on my own (hence the SI). I finally had to go see a counselor after my ex's suicide, and that's where I got diagnosed--I never even...
by bellaclare
Sun Aug 07, 2005 5:30 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: how do you cope with loneliness?
Replies: 13
Views: 594

know the feeling

I get that lonely feeling a lot, too. I haven't really come up with any good strategies for dealing with it yet, but there's a lot of good suggestions here. I'm a teacher, and usually when I'm dealing with my students is the only time I can shake that feeling. I think because I'm distracted from it,...