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my scars are my story thats what i want to think, but i still hide them

You were very brave to tell your mum, i admire you. and its fabalous that she seems to have taken it all in her stride. Remember that the recovery proces is yours and your in charge. good luck

i think its generally related to abuse not just sexual.

maybe u get so use to the pain

i wasl always tought that crying was a sign of weakness and for the last 19 yers of my life i have only cried alone.. but im starting to realise that isnt true... and for some reason i have started crying all over the place

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how about riting down the stuff u wana say.. just the basics... so then yr T can ask quaetions. thats what i had to do at first.. coz it was to scary to say the things out loud.

i would get rid of the ones on my lower arms because once i have my career i think its best toher ppl dont know. but my scars on my hips.. the wrse ones.. remind me of the bad times.. and one day i hope they will remind me of much better i am.

the person i told first i felt i could trust ebcause of previous things she had said to me. she had upset me by giving me the truth in the past.. but in the long turm it turned out she was right... thats what i needed someone who cared but could still be truthful.

my councilling is really helping

the person i went to help was someone who had been great... and honest with me in the past. i had said something about myself that wasnt negative on the surface but that she saw could be the edge of an issue. if you see what i ment. and she had words with me about it. 2 months later i needed to tell...

that doesnt sound good chey

sounds like the virus my bf had.. the only thing that stopped it was re formating the computer.. sorry

Name: Kelly Are you currently trying to stop or reduce SI: yes If so what is your motivation: Being alive for the people i love, being a good role model for my little sisters. showing my parents they can ruin any more of my life. showing Kay i am everything she said. Favorite coping skills: Kay (bu...

Kays the person that makes me calm... she can make me laugh how ever bad i'm feeling. i want her to say she'll still be around.. but i know she cant be. i want her to know how much shes helped too. I have a councillor... but speakin with Kay helps more. If I am reading this right, before talking to ...

Hey, i havnt done anything yet... i still want to.. we went the cinema.. good distraction. Ok il answer what you said. The only person i can be open with and the only person that i feel helps me is a woman called Kay. she's a lectuerer at my uni... and over time i have found she has been through alo...

1. how will this situation or feeling change if i hurt myself? iw ill feel calmer and more in controle 2. what will hurting myself bring to the situation? what will it take away from the situation? in making me calmer i will be able to think more clearly about it. 3. how do i want to feel about thi...

scars are ok.. i mean you cant hide your body forever, but i wouldnt show cuts.. i mean ideally they should be dressed.. and also i personaly dont want the added attention.

What motivates you to try a coping thing instead of si'ing? someone has faith in more for the first time If you had to move twice to cope i.e. move your body, what would you do? got of my ass and ring Kay It's three o'clock in the afternoon and you want to si, what can you do instead? think of all ...

i really wise i could say this Kay - you have been my guardian angel of late. you have no idea how much you have done for me. i know im still a mess but il get there one day.. and i will ALWAYS know that i didnt it because if your help.. even if by then uni os long over and your no longer my persona...

i some times feel like this - its hard to deal with - im not doin it for attention but when ppl see it (that only consists of my 2 most trusted people) i want what they see to worth it so to speak. i have a perticular friend that when i know im going see i think i should make this time something to ...

tecniquly (sp?) it is coz yr still hurting yourself, but in reality its safer than cutting.