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by fieldmouse
Mon May 09, 2005 4:18 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: My dream *SI*
Replies: 5
Views: 304

What I would get from that is the communication involved with someone else being there. I've had a similar dream which involved me being shredded up by feral cats (I'd been scratched a few days beforehand). Of course, it happened in public and there was a big mess so people found out. It wasn't SI b...
by fieldmouse
Mon May 09, 2005 3:50 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: last time i wanted to si, i didn't because.......
Replies: 1252
Views: 77490

I didn't have the guts. It's too scary. That doesn't really get me anywhere good though.
by fieldmouse
Sat Apr 09, 2005 1:06 am
Forum: coping
Topic: healing of wounds
Replies: 9
Views: 610

and by the way, i'm not really sure myself if they do actually heal quicker when kept dry always (i'm not an experienced SIer), which i why I'm here for the questions. i have no empirical evidence to support my contention :)
by fieldmouse
Sat Apr 09, 2005 1:05 am
Forum: coping
Topic: healing of wounds
Replies: 9
Views: 610

cheers mallie. I suppose I'm weighing up between getting wounds wet (which destroys the scab and leaves the wound open; possibly a greater chance of infection also?) and having a shower and being nice and clean. Sometimes I feel like leaving the wounds at least a few days after the event is good, it...
by fieldmouse
Fri Apr 08, 2005 2:38 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Is this really strange? *SI*
Replies: 14
Views: 634

i think it can be desireable in some circumstances to confront urges instead of trying to repress them. Looking at photos is a way of doing that, and it's good that it's an external thing also. It can be better than trying to run everything over in your head, which can in the end frustrate you to th...
by fieldmouse
Fri Apr 08, 2005 1:34 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: healing of wounds
Replies: 9
Views: 610

one conveniently doesn't concern themselves with the prospect of weeks of discomfort when doing the deed to they? :(

For this reason I've made myself a pact to change my behaviour. To remember how i am now (the day after), that it doesn't work. I think i actually feel worse.
by fieldmouse
Fri Apr 08, 2005 4:31 am
Forum: coping
Topic: healing of wounds
Replies: 9
Views: 610

healing of wounds

Howdy. I was wanting to know what people think about letting wounds get wet and if it affects the healing process at all. When I have wounds I try to keep them dry, but sometimes that just isn't a practical option. I do so because when they get wet it seems to be a step backward in terms of healing....