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by balletomane
Thu Jun 25, 2009 2:53 am
Forum: coping
Topic: How you feel & what you're going to DO about it.
Replies: 357
Views: 29507

thirsty. get lemonade!
by balletomane
Sun Mar 08, 2009 3:27 am
Forum: before and after
Topic: After
Replies: 1
Views: 513

Hey Britt. I am sorry things are hard right now. Being tired is just so difficult. It really lowers one's defenses. What do you think about in the future trying to take a nap before you hurt yourself? It might not stop you every time, but maybe sometimes it would make a difference. It wouldn't even ...
by balletomane
Mon Dec 29, 2008 1:15 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Candys Coping Thread
Replies: 1760
Views: 47506

I'm glad to hear that you are taking care of yourself, Candy. Happy holidays. :redstar:
by balletomane
Sat Dec 06, 2008 6:19 am
Forum: before and after
Topic: after ruining a record... :-(
Replies: 1
Views: 525

Would it help to reiterate for yourself that you really are in control? Because while it may feel like some outside force is controlling your actions, ultimately you are still making your choices.

It sounds like a tough situation though.
by balletomane
Tue Nov 25, 2008 5:24 am
Forum: before and after
Topic: Before
Replies: 3
Views: 726

I am so happy to hear that you didn't end up hurting yourself. I hope the relaxation CDs prove to be useful for you. :1hug:
by balletomane
Sat Nov 22, 2008 9:20 pm
Forum: before and after
Topic: after
Replies: 1
Views: 495

Wait 30 minutes. Thats all I commit to today.
That's really good. It's best to start where you are. I hope things get better for you. :star:
by balletomane
Sat Nov 22, 2008 9:15 pm
Forum: before and after
Topic: Before
Replies: 3
Views: 726

Hi Diane. I am sorry things are so difficult right now. You do have a lot of stressful things going on all at once and it must be very difficult to deal with. Are there nice things you can do to take extra good care of yourself right now? You don't deserve to be hurt, you deserve good things. Are yo...
by balletomane
Sun Nov 16, 2008 11:43 pm
Forum: before and after
Topic: after:(
Replies: 2
Views: 495

Hey. I'm sorry that things are rough. It's good though that you recognize that you are urgey right now, so you can take steps to keep yourself safe. You mentioned that you could call a friend, but that phones make you nervous. Do you think you could ask a friend to come over and watch a movie or som...
by balletomane
Sun Nov 16, 2008 1:39 am
Forum: before and after
Topic: after
Replies: 5
Views: 879

It sounds like things are really tough right now. I understand your point about not wanting to let things build up to the point where you do something even more drastic than SI, but what if you took steps to prevent things from even building up to the point that you felt like you needed to SI? Thing...
by balletomane
Sun Aug 03, 2008 11:03 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: stupid little happy things
Replies: 595
Views: 73581

icecap wrote:little kids
:blush: definitely.
by balletomane
Sun Aug 03, 2008 11:03 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: stupid little happy things
Replies: 595
Views: 73581

cupcakes.
by balletomane
Sun Aug 03, 2008 11:02 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Place to cry
Replies: 2185
Views: 125897

:cry:
by balletomane
Sun Aug 03, 2008 11:02 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Things Left Unsaid - Version 3.0 *Language*
Replies: 4840
Views: 255240

I feel like no one wants to hear about it anymore.
by balletomane
Sat Jul 26, 2008 7:03 pm
Forum: before and after
Topic: After
Replies: 2
Views: 642

I'm a little bit angry with T for not calling me, it makes me feel like he doesn't care. Does T have a pattern of not calling/acting like he doesn't care? Or does it just feel in the moment like he doesn't care, but when you look objectively at the evidence, he probably does care? I guess what I am...
by balletomane
Sun Jul 20, 2008 9:48 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Mandalas :)
Replies: 16
Views: 1707

I am OBSESSED with mandalas. I was so excited to see this thread. Yours is beautiful, Roxi. :)
by balletomane
Sat Jul 19, 2008 12:21 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: My coping list
Replies: 3
Views: 601

That's a really good list, Becky. You have some of my favorites on there. I really enjoy coloring. I like coloring mandalas and butterflies. If you are interested, I can send you some sites with printable coloring pages. :)
by balletomane
Fri Jul 18, 2008 7:40 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: lonely
Replies: 7
Views: 1146

Glad you're doing well today. I hope work goes okay. :)
by balletomane
Fri Jul 18, 2008 3:02 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: lonely
Replies: 7
Views: 1146

How are you doing today?
by balletomane
Fri Jul 18, 2008 3:01 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: I am awesome because...
Replies: 15
Views: 1965

This is an awesome thread. :)

I am awesome because I have very diverse interests. :star:
by balletomane
Mon Jul 14, 2008 10:30 pm
Forum: before and after
Topic: After
Replies: 2
Views: 613

I am sorry things are so rough right now. I am really impressed though by how you were able to answer these questions so constructively. I really like the idea of posting your coping methods in your room. I've found that really effective in the past. Given that things are so difficult right now, do ...