Search found 5 matches

by Suze
Wed Apr 13, 2005 8:01 am
Forum: coping
Topic: How do I not blame others?
Replies: 7
Views: 350

I'm sorry, I don't have any advice. I just wanted to congratulate you on trying to improve yourself for the better! I've had close relationships with people who take out their anger on me, and it really hurts and upsets me. It would have made a world of difference if they'd admitted they had a probl...
by Suze
Wed Apr 06, 2005 10:42 am
Forum: coping
Topic: the story of a relationship.. *all trigs*
Replies: 15
Views: 606

Just wanted you to know that I read and I care. I also want to recommend: http://www.afterabortion.com/ I had no qualms about my abortion beforehand but afterwards was devestated. That website has really helped me - it's completely non-judgmental and non-political, and has a message board where you ...
by Suze
Wed Mar 16, 2005 10:09 am
Forum: coping
Topic: what should i do?
Replies: 5
Views: 105

Sounds like he doesn't know much about SI - I'd tell him more about it, or give him some information to read. You're going to have to tell him that it'll be too harmful for you to keep your promise. This situation is bad for both of you - you HAVE to talk to him. Maybe you could write your feelings ...
by Suze
Sun Mar 13, 2005 5:00 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Is this really strange? *SI*
Replies: 14
Views: 573

I found that looking at really bad SI takes my urge away - really bad SI scares me, and I'm so scared of ending up like that that I resist a lot harder! I feel like I've got to stop SIing before I get to a really severe stage - it'd be a lot harder to stop then. And recently I had a thing where I wa...
by Suze
Fri Feb 25, 2005 12:01 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: advice
Replies: 5
Views: 231

Hi , welcome to the board. If you want strong sensations to make you feel alive you could try chewing something hot like raw ginger root or chillis. I find that this works sometimes as I can just lose myself in the sensation in my mouth and forget how unhappy I feel for a while! Good luck - I know y...