bus

thanks deb

yeah are other peoples still missing?

thanks- im not seeing them either

i cant get the link for my counter to work properly

thanks you're a champ

i meant how people have something else eg "place" written there and it takes you to the thing without the whole thing haveing to be written there- sorry i should have been more specific

i was wondering how to get a link to my place in my sig- i ahd a looka round and i couldnt see how, can someone help

Thanks, Love Sarah

it wont let me hav any of the new ones- is there a reason for this

there are 5 stages of grief- denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance but these are just usual things they are not set in stone it can take between 2 years to a lifetime to deal with the grief that comes from a death depending on who has died but the important thing is to deal with it fo...

okay..hearing that you said frances had dealt with this before is probably why she is asking you those kind of questions those kind of questions are the typical questions asked by someone who has been told how to talk to someone who SI's those kind of questions also verify what kind of help you need...

welcome to bus

i hope that these forums can help and feel free to pm me if you ever need to talk to someone because it can be hard to go through life not talking sometimes

From Sarah

i hope that that is the case coz at present im 23 days and counting and it is still hard really hard

hey i started the other thread and i know wat it feels like, the best thing to do is learn to control ur own body using techniques for eg. when u first start to notice signs of shaking get up and walk around the room a couple of times then go and get a drink of water Also find an activity that u kno...

i have a book like that and the best things are fotos of friends and leters of friends

stories are good 2 here is a good site- http://216.71.2.132/texts/

laying on the grass looking at the stars/clouds
dolphins in the water at sunset

thanks everyone, the couple of people who i no in person who SI thought i was odd for doin this and they had neva heard of it so i thought i was a freak or something

Hey When it comes to telling your friends it seems terrifying, trust me i know, but imo the best way to go about it is to pick the firend that you feel closet to and tell them that you really need to tell them something serious and then either show them the marks if possible or just tell them.. Ask ...

It is pretty hard when parents find out stuff, Especially if they have never experienced it because they don't know how to react and they are pretty much just scared because they love you. i think it would be a good idea that you tell you're friends and you will b surprised how understanding you are...

I have not been SI for very long but every time i try and not do it when i get the urge to i shake, my whle body does even if i try and do something distracting my whole bpdy just shakes until i SI= is this normal, whats happening?