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*snuggles Neatsy* I'm sorry about your nightmares. I can't think of anything that'd relieve them other than feeling relaxed and safe while going to sleep. I'm sorry I haven't been helpful. I have moments where I feel so disconnected and I just have a hard time empathizing. But I am replying to let ...

I'm having so much trouble trying to figure out what's going on here and what I can do about. Usually I'm pretty insightful and can figure out what's what on my own, but this time I could really, really use replies because I don't know where all this is coming from and maybe people's questions or th...

I'm hesitant to reply to this right now because I'm afraid of my reply becoming all about me instead of about what you need right now. I do see what you're saying, but I think me expanding on that right now would not be helpful to you. I don't know if I can help you much with this until I get back l...

Hiya. I haven't posted in here before, and I'd really appreciate some feedback. I've thought about doing these questions a few times, but most of the tiime lately I feel too dull and blank and confused to write anything. This time I just dove in and filled out the questions. Wrote a lot, so it's kin...

:o Oh, that's from my post. I haven't posted on that topic in a while, but I've been dealing with it almost constantly since then. Sometimes it's real hard not to let it just eat me up inside. right before he did it I grabbed his hand I was never so scared in my whole life. "No don't" I said, but th...

So, it mostly seemed to have been a misunderstanding on his part then? Did you feel satisfied with that explanation? Well...sort of. I mean, I believe him. In that sense, I am satisfied with the explanation. He's a terrible liar, and I know that he's not the most aware guy in the world. But I got a...

Okies... So I saw him today. We took a very long walk and had a very long talk which included a great many "I'm sorry"'s on his part. And a lot of hesitation on my part to get to the point, but when I got there the look on his face...pretty much said it all. He really did think that I had changed my...

• He is a long-since ex -boyfriend, who you still stay in regular contact with, right? Correct, except for the long-since part. The break-up was a little over two months ago. I see him about once a week, and talk to him three of four times a week. • The incident that occurred with him happened a wh...

Hiya...thanks for your responses. As I'm sitting here trying to think of what to write in this reply, my ex-boyfriend is on AIM. We're talking about the usual topics of conversation: school, our respective hobbies, normal mundane stuff. And I keep mulling over all this while he tells me about the Dn...

Hiya... *sex/SA spoiler* Okies, I'm very nervous here. I've been thinking a lot about what is or is not sexual abuse. Some of it is obvious — I know that what happened when I was 12 was rape. But more recent events in my life aren't so clear cut as that was. My ex-boyfriend and I are very close. We'...