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One of the main reason for self harm is my history of Sexual abuse as a kid which has carried on to my adult life, the thing I wrestle with now is I have questioned my sexuality for many years but I got married anyway… It’s been a long time since I’ve done any reading on the topic, but back then, y...

plantt wrote:delete my account please.

Everything O.K?

mian wrote:I'm going to smile and nod.

susanM wrote:I will now go back to smiling and nodding vacantly.

* joins-in… *

Uh…now I’ve got posts (I think just PM's, thus far) littered with this sort of stuff:

I’

…wherever I’ve previously had punctuation.

I missed whatever happened, but I notice that many of my old posts now have all kinds of unexplained question marks in them. For example, prior to the weekend, I might have typed something like this: ‘Tis a sad thing—in this life—that chocolate does not fall from the sky!!! …and now I have t...

I'm getting it to work, but its finally occurred to me...it is only working in PMs... Anyone else notice this...?

* hesitantly…hopefully… *

It looks like the battle with the bug…



…has finally been won, yeah…? (since it seems to have worked only intermittently, earlier…)

Hey, buddy! Take a look right here. Mine went bu-bye too, but just re-submit it, and all will be well.

près de vous wrote:last year i decided to get rid of my tools, so i put them in a jar of water and then put them in the freezer.

That's kind-of a neat idea...

Bury them; inter them in the ground and have a little “funeral”—mourn them, if need be, and then let that little “ceremony” mark a new starting point in your life…

Just a thought...

Might I ask why you want to do it this way in the first place—as opposed to simply throwing-away your tools yourself?

This sounds like a recipe for a Pandora’s Box scenario, if ever there was one!

In my part of the world, winter is slowly approaching once more. But, as much as I hate winter, I’ll tell ya one thing that it will be nice to have a break from: All the bugs that are out in the warm weather!

my way is to make a hitlist, and then become the worlds most famous and feared homophobe murderer in the world, then plead insanity and find a nice padded institution. Unfortunetly, i really don't think thats going to work... http://www.smileyville.com/images/happy/z7shysterical.gif But seriously: ...

Realize that you aren’t getting someone else in trouble; you are merely responding to/reporting what your abuser decided to do to you, all on their own.

katja wrote: …she replied by showing me a tape on her car stereo. It was a tape of me and my abusor talking….

I’m not very good at dream analysis, but—on the tape—could you discern what you and your abuser were actually talking about?

strmdncr wrote:That is so not fair to you. It doesn't acknowledge anything and just places more pressure on you that you do not need...

Agreed. If that was his way of “helping” you, then he gets a big: for his efforts...

Hang-in there, sidvicious1903.

raevy wrote:personally, i'd wait and see what happens.

strmdncr wrote:For myself I wait and see what happens from it all...

Sorry to be blunt, but: It basically sounds like it is out-of-your-hands at this point anyway…so, why stress about it…?

Ombudsman noobie, checking-in for duty! http://www.smileyville.com/images/happy/042.gif Apologies for this, but I have a really stupid question to ask… http://www.smileyville.com/images/embarased/icon9.gif I got into the “Ombudsgroup” O.K., but I’m not sure what to make of it, now that I’ve seen it ...

Limestone: Great suggestion, and this…

limestone wrote: you get to choose: because you are always choosing. always.

…is a great reminder; we are so rarely—if ever—powerless to make choices for ourselves…

Wonderful post!

Yeah, my first idea won’t work…but could you make it into a time thing? Mom, I’ve spent [x-amount of time] with you, and so now I’m gonna go spend the same amount of time with dad—try and keep it neutral/non-personal like that…?