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by zani
Tue Jul 12, 2005 11:15 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: My Abuse (*sexual abuse*)
Replies: 1
Views: 82

:star: Well done for telling someone else but more so for allowing yourself to trust another girl enough to tell her. This is REALLY important; you are NOT dirty or wrong for what happened to you, even though you may feel this way. I tell myself that the 'act' was dirty and wrong and that my emotion...
by zani
Tue Jul 12, 2005 11:03 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Coming off and changing meds - How can i cope?**TRIG SH**
Replies: 1
Views: 58

Coming off and changing meds - How can i cope?**TRIG SH**

:cry: I've not been here for a while. Guess it's cos i've been doing ok and living life :) Been sh less and less. I've just found out that i'm 8 weeks pregnant with number 3 and am SO SCARED. My psyc dr reduced my venlaflaxin (effexor) from 150mg daily to 75mg for 5 days and now i'm meant to just co...
by zani
Mon Mar 28, 2005 11:17 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Tomorow, day 1 in my drugfree life, giving up main coping me
Replies: 6
Views: 188

:) Hey well done, if at first you don't succeed try and try again! I haven't had a drink for 3 days or smoked weed for 4 days. It's all cos i bumped into a friend i worked with 9 years ago. I've seen her in the street a couple of times over the years but just nodded etc. Well on thursday we stopped ...
by zani
Mon Mar 21, 2005 7:22 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Tomorow, day 1 in my drugfree life, giving up main coping me
Replies: 6
Views: 188

:-? Thanks for posting and good luck for the time ahead. I've just started to smoke weed as a replacement for s/i and also i've started to drink.!? I'm scared doing this but somehow i can't control it? I needed to read or hear from someone the other end. I keep telling myself the dangers etc. but am...
by zani
Mon Sep 13, 2004 9:18 am
Forum: coping
Topic: So tired *minor si/su*
Replies: 6
Views: 218

8) Well done, good luck, stay cool (with or without the shades!! :) )
by zani
Tue Sep 07, 2004 4:43 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: *SI*Obsession?
Replies: 23
Views: 1128

that must have been pretty scary to kinda see that! I thought maybe it might be ur unconcious exploring the fact that u haven't s/h in a while and its' way of letting go a bit. Sometimes a person needs to re-visit (not always literally) in order to let go. But that might also be a load of old tosh??...
by zani
Tue Sep 07, 2004 4:31 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: So tired *minor si/su*
Replies: 6
Views: 218

:-? hey, try not 2 be so hard on urself. U r going thru a big change in routine and environment. Try and find someone to talk 2, like laura said. I had a big crash in a similar situation and found talking to someone really did help. It was also very hard to trust someone new but the risk was well wo...
by zani
Tue Sep 07, 2004 4:22 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: IM NEW AND I JUST CUT FOR NO REASON I DONT UNDERSTAND
Replies: 9
Views: 543

:wink: Don't beat urself up about it. Sometimes if i've done really well and not s/h for a week or two i find myself needing to do it just so i know where i am with it. The unconcious idea that i haven't done it is very unfamiliar. Stopping s/h is a long process. Be proud that u did do so well and n...