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by swirlish
Sun Apr 07, 2024 1:28 pm
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: Looking for a board admin!
Replies: 2
Views: 1310

Re: Looking for a board admin!

I will pm you 😊
by swirlish
Mon Mar 15, 2021 10:08 pm
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: Staying logged in
Replies: 3
Views: 9173

Re: Staying logged in

Hm.. I took a quick look in the admin panel, but couldn't see anything hinky there, though that doesn't say much. Have you tried emptying cache, temporary files and all that? Can you describe some more exactly when it happens and what actually happens? Is it all browsers, is it any particular forum(...
by swirlish
Wed Sep 12, 2018 5:48 pm
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: Username change requests - post here!
Replies: 2
Views: 33445

Re: Username change requests - post here!

StarChild wrote:
Wed Sep 12, 2018 4:39 pm
Could I have my name changed again? I apologize if it's a bother.

I'd like to be StarChild, if it's not taken :)
No bother at all! Done :)
by swirlish
Thu Aug 30, 2018 3:43 pm
Forum: welcome wagon
Topic: Pm to newbies.
Replies: 2580
Views: 1088830

Re: Pm to newbies.

cause they seem weird regarding the things they wrote under gender (PQ/TF/DQ/XW/VZ/SU...). I still can write them a welcome pm cause they haven't posted any spam yet but wanted to hear other's opinions before. Odd genders are often a flag, so good call not to PM. Garfield is the only one I’m not su...
by swirlish
Sat Aug 25, 2018 1:20 am
Forum: coping
Topic: stupid little happy things
Replies: 595
Views: 74325

Re: stupid little happy things

Bumping this from eons ago, I really like it :-)
by swirlish
Wed Dec 14, 2016 12:30 am
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: Access Issues
Replies: 6
Views: 9922

Re: Access Issues

busboard.com is down - she might have been using the busboard domain to access bus instead of buslist.org ? If so, ask her to update her links and bookmarks. Also remind her (and you and everyone! :) ) that the address to contact the admins, if anyone needs to, is bodiesundersiege@gmail.com I'm very...
by swirlish
Wed Oct 19, 2016 6:12 pm
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: Busmail?
Replies: 5
Views: 10563

Re: Busmail?

Deb is aware of the problem with buslist.org as well. I don't know what the solution will be. I can only ask that you e-mail deb about it (I'm sorry you didn't get a response, darkestelf). If there is anything the admins can do, we'll do it, but for now we can't. I'm sorry to have to say that.
by swirlish
Fri Sep 30, 2016 9:53 pm
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: Busmail?
Replies: 5
Views: 10563

Re: Busmail?

This is something that only the owner of the domain can fix. Deb has been informed that it's down, but the staff don't know what else will happen, although we hope it will be resolved. From what I understand at least, no e-mails/content has been deleted/removed, so there should be a technical possib...
by swirlish
Wed Jul 22, 2015 8:14 pm
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: How do you access bus? (new poll)
Replies: 21
Views: 22657

How do you access bus? (new poll)

I'm redoing this poll because I screwed up the last one a bit :) I've merged the replies on the other post - those of who you voted already, please vote again (and sorry for the hassle!). We want to find out a little more about how you access bus, how you feel about the different options for accessi...
by swirlish
Mon Jul 20, 2015 8:24 pm
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: How do you access bus? (new poll)
Replies: 21
Views: 22657

Re: Do you access BUS on your phone/tablet?

sar, I remember I deliberately didn't put that option, but I have to admit I don't remember why anymore, I'm sure I had a good thought somewhere! :D It's not a poll that will demand any kind of scientific stuff, it's curiosity along with trying to figure out how to meet people's needs, especially wh...
by swirlish
Sun Jul 19, 2015 8:33 pm
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: How do you access bus? (new poll)
Replies: 21
Views: 22657

How do you access bus? (new poll)

I'm redoing this poll because I screwed up the last one a bit :) I've merged the replies on the other post - those of who you voted already, please vote again (and sorry for the hassle!). We want to find out a little more about how you access bus, how you feel about the different options for accessi...
by swirlish
Sat Jun 13, 2015 1:45 pm
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: get to know the board staff
Replies: 12
Views: 22502

Re: get to know the board staff

Shamefully, I haven't had an updated bios here for a long time :blush: I'm in my 30s and live alone in an apartment in a pretty lively neighbourhood. There are a lot of kids playing in the yard outside my house so it's never really quiet here. Which can be both good and bad, sometimes I really crave...
by swirlish
Sat May 16, 2015 8:35 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: please read - overwhelming feelings regarding school
Replies: 5
Views: 1633

Re: please read - overwhelming feelings regarding school

I just thought of something regarding motivation: If you have a smartphone, there's an app called Forest. You set a timer for 30 (or more) minutes, hit start and the app starts to plant a tree. If you cancel the app to use your phone for something else (you can set certain exceptions, like alarms et...
by swirlish
Sat Apr 25, 2015 7:19 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Starting over.... *SI*
Replies: 4
Views: 1097

Re: Starting over.... *SI*

Rambling is totally fine, I think we all do to some extent. If it helps to distract you, even better! Welcome to bus by the way :moo: :moo: :moo: A suggestion is to post in the introduction thread on main, you might get more replies there - the coping forum is a bit slow these days, although I hope ...
by swirlish
Sat Apr 25, 2015 7:14 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Inspiration to fight the good fight
Replies: 1
Views: 802

Re: Inspiration to fight the good fight

I really loved reading that, thank you! I especially liked this bit, I hadn't considered that before but it's a great suggestion and an awesome coping idea: Take out a sheet of paper and write down the date you last hurt yourself. Then tally up the number of days it’s been since then. Somehow, it me...
by swirlish
Sun Apr 19, 2015 8:11 pm
Forum: before and after
Topic: before
Replies: 6
Views: 1614

Re: before

They did, I got through without injuring and I am doing a lot better now. :) Awesome, well done! It seems like you're already well aware of this, but it might help someone else; when you're in a really bad situation, with depression/anxiety/urges to hurt yourself, it's easy to convince yourself tha...
by swirlish
Sun Jan 25, 2015 8:29 pm
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: NOTE - Secret Shame is alive again!
Replies: 2
Views: 9252

NOTE - Secret Shame is alive again!

This is just a notice to let you all know that Deb's Secret Shame site is now live again :) Please, can you let us know wherever you find a link to an old broken version or a link that directs you to selfharm.net so we can fix it? :D I know many of you have been missing the site and so have all of u...
by swirlish
Sun Jan 04, 2015 7:51 pm
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: post in sourcebook
Replies: 1
Views: 7898

Re: post in sourcebook

That's a good point, I will take a look :) Thanks for bringing it up!
by swirlish
Mon Nov 17, 2014 7:02 pm
Forum: welcome wagon
Topic: Pm to newbies.
Replies: 2580
Views: 1088830

Re: Pm to newbies.

You guys are doing a really good job! Thank you so much :)

Just out of curiosity, do you ever get a reply to your PMs?