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by Orange Crush
Wed Jun 09, 2004 11:57 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Advice please.G/F just told me she's bi.
Replies: 10
Views: 431

All you can do is tell her you're there for her and try and make her feel less ashamed. Easier said than done I know.
It must have taken spme guts for her to tell you. I'm bi and haven't told anyone yet.
by Orange Crush
Tue Jun 08, 2004 11:28 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Strengths/Weaknesses
Replies: 3
Views: 145

that sound like a really good idea.

but I'm not very good at taking complements
by Orange Crush
Sat Jun 05, 2004 4:29 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Freezing up
Replies: 6
Views: 266

I know how you feel. I once had to sit through a PSHE lesson about suicide, depression and SI. I felt like I had a big red flashing light over my head. I normally have a lot to say in those lessons but I couldn't say anything. It's always hard to change the subject but just act like you're not inter...
by Orange Crush
Tue Jun 01, 2004 10:23 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Gaining a better understanding of yourself
Replies: 6
Views: 372

ooooh I'll try some of them out.
by Orange Crush
Tue Jun 01, 2004 1:40 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: My anti SI
Replies: 8
Views: 273

I'll try that, *cuddles my bear*

dashboard confessional rocks! :)
by Orange Crush
Sun May 30, 2004 12:27 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: why
Replies: 21
Views: 1014

I hurt myself before cutting. It started off with banging my head against the wall, punching the wall, picking scabs etc.

I don't remember the first time I cut. It was about the time of my mock exams. I don't remember much anymore. I think I've blocked most of it out.
by Orange Crush
Thu May 27, 2004 12:19 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: pregnant? *lang, ranting, SI, slight SU* (It's a long post)
Replies: 9
Views: 555

The risk of getting pregnant after 9 days is quite low but just get the morning after pill just to make sure

:1hug3:

hope it works out.
by Orange Crush
Thu May 27, 2004 12:10 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Numb :(
Replies: 3
Views: 144

I get how you feel. I try the elastic band thing and it works for me sometimes
by Orange Crush
Thu May 27, 2004 12:07 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: My friend did SI, No tolerance
Replies: 3
Views: 214

firstly :1hug: I might be able to understand her point of view if she hadn't been through it all herself. "Hey, haven't you been through the same thing? Remember what it was like for you back then? Well, that's what it's like for me right now. Please, try to be more empathetic here." Thats good advi...
by Orange Crush
Sun May 23, 2004 9:41 am
Forum: coping
Topic: *cries* yesterday was bad *SI*
Replies: 11
Views: 347

tea and cookies and have a cow!

:moo:

and lots of hugs :1hug: :1hug: :1hug: :1hug: :1hug: :1hug: :1hug: :1hug: :1hug: :1hug: :1hug: :1hug:
by Orange Crush
Sun May 23, 2004 9:37 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Dealing with romantic loneliness
Replies: 6
Views: 280

I deal with a lot of insecurity with girls. I am not afraid of them thinking I am not good-looking enough. Rather, I am afraid of girls thinking I am too much of a social klutz. I also know girls are turned off by insecurity, which is like a self-fulfilling prophecy for me. I know exactly how you'r...
by Orange Crush
Tue May 18, 2004 5:34 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: sleep/depression?
Replies: 49
Views: 2373

I'm constantly tired but it takes me hours to get to sleep, and its always interupted.
by Orange Crush
Mon May 17, 2004 9:48 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Never done this before
Replies: 12
Views: 526

Hi, I'm a newbie too so welcome.

Whats making you feel like this?
And you can get out of this, the longer it goes on the worse it gets. I've only been SIing for 5 months and I have to cover my whole body.
by Orange Crush
Wed May 12, 2004 12:17 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: prom dress, oh my! *si*
Replies: 16
Views: 756

My prom is friday yay!

I've got a shawl to cover mine and I'm gonna use make up aswell.
by Orange Crush
Tue May 11, 2004 8:43 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Method if you SI for the pain
Replies: 19
Views: 842

Ohh I think I'll try that.
by Orange Crush
Tue May 11, 2004 8:41 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: writing about SI
Replies: 20
Views: 785

I like to write songs which usually helps.

I don't re-read what I've written in my diary cos it helps at the time but you just feel like crap reading it back.
by Orange Crush
Tue May 11, 2004 8:40 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: writing about SI
Replies: 20
Views: 785

I like to write songs which usually helps.

I don't re-read what I've written in my diary cos it helps at the time but you just feel like crap reading it back.
by Orange Crush
Tue May 11, 2004 8:39 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: writing about SI
Replies: 20
Views: 785

I like to write songs which usually helps.

I don't re-read what I've written in my diary cos it helps at the time but you just feel like crap reading it back.
by Orange Crush
Tue May 11, 2004 8:37 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Feeling really pants
Replies: 2
Views: 111

That's really bad of them and you shouldn't take that. Tell your counsellor if you feel comfortable. Anyway, its that you liked him that matters not your friend.
by Orange Crush
Tue May 11, 2004 8:34 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Covering scars onstage? *si* *scars* *poss. triggers*
Replies: 9
Views: 420

Glad it went well. :D