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Before: how will this situation or feeling change if i hurt myself? It won't change the situation at all and as a result the feeling won't really change, it will just be moved away from for a while what will hurting myself bring to the situation? what will it take away from the situation? perhaps a ...

Greetings all :) I'm strmdncr. I have been a member of BUS since 2004 and though from time to time I will wander into other forums I generally stick to Place and the various After Hours forums. I live in Canada, am married and over the years we have shared our home with a number of animals including...

Was just dropping in to say that I use the guildwars theme and wasn't able to vote. Also that problem a long time ago with the smilies - that too seems to be a problem linked to the theme. Kind of sucks - I like the guildwars theme because it's much easier on my eyes, the subsilver one just makes th...

Thanks kiwi

Wondering if anyone else is suddenly getting strange pop-up type screens due to highlighted words in people's posts and hovering over it with the mouse? Never had this happen before - figured I'd check here to see if it's something new related to keeping the site running or I've managed to pick up s...

ripped apart
guilty
uncertain
lost
angry
sad
hurt
alone

Before: Before You Self-Harm write down the shadow that's hiding behind the urge. look at it. ask yourself: how will this situation or feeling change if i hurt myself? The situation won't change. The feeling might go away for a while - not sure any longer if it would or if si'ing will no longer lead...

tired, cranky, edgy, irritable - a sense of seeking without knowing for what

angry, despairing, discouraged, annoyed, frustrated, low on hope

Thanks mian

The problem occurs regardless of what computer I use so it has to be account specific somehow. *shrugs* Perhaps it's simply that I'm missing seeing something. Either way it's not a major problem of any sort as I can just as easily get by with the smilies I do have access to. It was more a minor 'won...

Using Firefox primarily myself, rare occasion IE- thanks for the suggestion though. Smilies :1love: :-D :) :-) :( :-o :-? 8) :olol: :-x :-P :oops: :cry: :evil: :roll: :wink: :tongue: :blush: (grrr) :infinity: :owink: :osmile: :owt: :oP: :omad: :oconf: :blfrwn: :oturq: :shakehead: :pangel: :newevil: ...

If I click on "view more smilies" under the ones that are to the left of the post I get the pop-up box. It offers me a limited number of smilies and that is all. It doesn't have the extra numbers like you are speaking of. My small box holds primarily the actual smiles, the cat pictures and the stars...

This has been a problem for a few months now, just haven't gotten around to addressing it previously. Anyhow for some reason I have a very limited amount of smilies that show on my smilies group for sharing and I suck at remembering the actual series of keys to press to get various ones. Is there an...

there are so many questions i have for you about your many experiences, so much i want to know yet i don't know what the appropriate boundaries are.... to one of you - i have learned so much and want to be able to talk and continue to bounce ideas off of you to the other - i struggle with the vague ...

Is it also possible that some of the guests may be people who don't want their name to show when they are online?

For me it encourages my avoiding looking at what the problem is and I don't want to continue to allow my anxieties and fears to control my life.

It won't help me reach my long term goals.
The temporary relief would not outweigh the anger and disappointment I'd have toward/about myself for giving in.
I want to make it to the three year si free point.

Before You Self-Harm write down the shadow that's hiding behind the urge. look at it. ask yourself: how will this situation or feeling change if i hurt myself? what will hurting myself bring to the situation? what will it take away from the situation? how do i want to feel about this in the long ru...