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by Ardeth
Thu Sep 01, 2005 10:59 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: what's your anti-si?
Replies: 204
Views: 57583

Don't know whether anyone else has mentioned this but this i my coping method: Coloring in some of my deep scars with a red ball point pen. In some places it's a little sore which helps with the urge and I tend to start thinking about all the things that went wrong when I made those scars and how it...
by Ardeth
Mon Apr 19, 2004 12:40 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA*
Replies: 1872
Views: 93801

To R - You are my whole life, my everything, I would never have been complete if you hadn't come into my life!!!! But sometimes I wish you would talk about your pain, because it hurts me so much to see you hurting inside but not accepting it and working through it. PLEASE LET ME HELP YOU!!!!! To my ...
by Ardeth
Mon Mar 29, 2004 12:54 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Hey guys im new here...i just need someone to talk to...
Replies: 7
Views: 681

In my humble opinion...

I think putting the strain on yourself - or anyone - of thinking the whole time that you should quit, is just wrong, because that just makes things worse and never gets you anywhere. Personally I'd just take things one step at a time right now and try to accept that you're an SI'er and move on from ...
by Ardeth
Sun Mar 28, 2004 11:02 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: last time i wanted to si, i didn't because.......
Replies: 1252
Views: 78700

I didn't si because I thought of my boyfriend... and how much he loved me and how much he understands but I can always see it hurts him in a way as well.
Unfortunately I can also say there was absloutely not other reason...