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- Tue Mar 08, 2005 3:56 am
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA*
- Replies: 1872
- Views: 79785
- Mon Feb 14, 2005 3:02 am
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA*
- Replies: 1872
- Views: 79785
it's so hard sitting and watching someone who purposefully creates this image of a caring, compassionate person who wants to help others, who talks of compassion and help given to others, and knowing that although I deeply long for someone to care, to help, to express their concern and to listen, th...
- Wed Feb 09, 2005 4:34 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA*
- Replies: 1872
- Views: 79785
how do i tell you? you're always so busy. i feel brushed off or avoided. everything is kept on a surface level and in places where there's no possibility of saying something actually meaningful. i've tried e-mails, but you seem resistant -- or maybe it's just my fear reading something into it. right...
- Fri Feb 04, 2005 3:56 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA*
- Replies: 1872
- Views: 79785
why do some people get to be loved? why couldn't i be sent to people who would love me and see my value? why would you send me to someone who would see me as inferior and reject me? why would i be told it was right? it wasnt. why didn't anyone care? why wouldn't you send someone to care? why didn't ...
- Fri Feb 04, 2005 1:26 am
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA*
- Replies: 1872
- Views: 79785
why did you ignore it? why did you push me away? how could you proclaim how important it was to run to those who need help and then ignore me shouting that I was hurting? how can you say that when someone shares something personal it's for a reason and then do nothing? how can i have the strength to...
- Mon Jan 31, 2005 9:45 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA*
- Replies: 1872
- Views: 79785
- Wed Jan 19, 2005 1:57 am
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA*
- Replies: 1872
- Views: 79785
- Sat Jan 15, 2005 1:37 am
- Forum: coping
- Topic: a curious friend-- need advice
- Replies: 9
- Views: 413
I agree with the other posters. If a question makes you uncomfortable, tell her. If you don't want to talk about it at that time, but might like to later, tell her that, too. Although her questions may seem probing, she may be trying to show you that she's not uncomfortable talking about it and that...
- Tue Jan 11, 2005 1:14 am
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA*
- Replies: 1872
- Views: 79785
- Tue Dec 14, 2004 10:00 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA*
- Replies: 1872
- Views: 79785
- Sat Dec 04, 2004 9:03 am
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA*
- Replies: 1872
- Views: 79785
I have no idea how to take you up on your offer. I have no idea how to tell you that I'd really like to have a friend. I have no way to get together. I feel entirely powerless, but it's too much to try to tell you this standing in the hallway. Please reach out. I so badly need to know that I matter ...
- Mon Nov 29, 2004 5:41 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA*
- Replies: 1872
- Views: 79785
I'd just like to know that you see me. That is OK that I exist, OK that I'm here and breathing. There's no need to be afraid of me or to avoid me. I was pushed and it went too far. I've tried to come to you, but you're always so busy. So many important things, I feel brushed off. Hurried. Thrown awa...
- Sat Nov 06, 2004 5:14 am
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Place To Wish
- Replies: 963
- Views: 53545
Ooooh, may I wish, too? <> I wish I could find a place where I'm accepted for who I am <> I wish someone would care for me and my children <> I wish I had a friend <> I wish I could get some time to just relax and be me <> I wish I knew who Me was <> I wish I was out of this six year hole of work so...
- Tue Oct 26, 2004 7:54 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA*
- Replies: 1872
- Views: 79785
- Fri Aug 27, 2004 9:11 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Paint a room
- Replies: 46
- Views: 3914
1) A chaotic collage of obscenely bright neon colors. Varying shades of orange, yellow, blue, green, pink all swirled, splattered, blotted covers the floor, walls and ceiling 2) Polished wood floors, white ceiling, pale green walls with a wheat or ivy pattern for a border. In a few area people are p...
- Fri Aug 27, 2004 9:00 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: What will your 5 things be?
- Replies: 113
- Views: 11329
OK, I'll give it a try.... 1. My Bible, because it reminds me of truth 2. My palm pilot with several games to keep my hands busy 3. An "adequate" supply of history/biography/philosophy books, to keep my mind busy 4. A notebook and pen to write down thoughts 5. A baseball bat, because sometime it jus...
- Mon Jul 12, 2004 5:52 am
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA*
- Replies: 1872
- Views: 79785
** ** ** SU triggers ** ** ** ** ** ** ** ** ** ** D: I can't explain to you how I feel right now. I have this secret, my SI, my feelings of self-hatred, that you just don't understand. We speak of self esteem, but you don't have any idea. I vascillate between thinking you can't possibly love me and...
- Thu Jul 08, 2004 7:47 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Things Left Unsaid *LA*
- Replies: 1872
- Views: 79785
M: You have absolutely no idea who I am. None. You've had almost 40 years to find out and you blew it. For years I've listened to your accusations and blame about how I've behaved badly. I'm through. I'm tired of you not caring about me. No, I'm not going to call you back. No, I don't owe you an exp...
- Fri Jul 02, 2004 2:24 am
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Method if you SI for the pain
- Replies: 19
- Views: 963
Sometimes I will pluck my leg hair with tweezers. It keeps my hands busy, requires me to focus, is time consuming, and is functional as well. Whoa, considering the density, it could keep me busy for several <i>days</i> if I worked straight-through. Of course, being blonde (and I'm sure there are a ...
- Fri Jul 02, 2004 2:21 am
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Method if you SI for the pain
- Replies: 19
- Views: 963