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- Mon Feb 07, 2005 5:53 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Attachment Disorders
- Replies: 8
- Views: 391
like wise i have anxiety disorders and am paranoid my BF wd leave me, weve been together nearly 2years. im 18. i cant go out without him, or somone, but i am always wonderin what he's up to and cant wait to have him back from college coz i get scared and rely on him for support, no one has ever said...
- Mon Feb 07, 2005 5:48 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: do i not want to get better?
- Replies: 4
- Views: 174
your not mad for feelig that you dont want to get better, i had this feeling and spoke to my T about it. the problem is that when you have been experiencing mental illness for such a long time it becomes you life, and to get better is almost re-building your life, and your in control of it which is ...
- Mon Feb 07, 2005 5:36 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: dissociating?
- Replies: 5
- Views: 400
it is exactly what jaded said above. you dont even have to be aware your thinking about things that would upset you becasue youcould be getting them from your subconsious. its a normal reaction. it hapens alot to peaple who have suffered. You will just feel that you are maybe watching your own body ...
- Mon Jan 17, 2005 10:22 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Help with anxiety and coping please...
- Replies: 3
- Views: 154
Hi there, with anxiety, there are such things caused comfort zones. an anxious person lives with in this comfort zone and to go out of it will cause anxiety attacks. Comfort zones appear when someone has the kind of anxiety that means that they are scared of going out or of feeding the dog, or what ...
- Mon Jan 17, 2005 9:57 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: OT- i hate being fat :( *vent*
- Replies: 4
- Views: 373
- Fri Jan 14, 2005 10:08 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Sex abuse? Where 2 go from here? any advice?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 211
any form of non concented sexual acts is sex abuse. like you i had a BF who made me touch him and then told me i wasnt that good and that he finished the job later that day, neeedless to say i didnt stay with him. i have had 2 serious sexual assualts by strangers and i felt it very difficult to cope...
every one grieves in their own way so there is no 'propper' way of grieving. some pple feel anger toward the dead person, some nothing attal, like a blank. You go thru many stages when grieving, and all are perfectly normal. Just try and remember the good times, and not the more difficult times. Rem...
- Fri Dec 24, 2004 9:35 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: Butterfly Effect
- Replies: 2
- Views: 178
- Fri Dec 24, 2004 9:33 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: weird thoughts
- Replies: 7
- Views: 289
i can relate with this 100%. I question everything my Bf does to track down what he's been up to in the last half hour, and then ask him again an hour later and freak if he doesnt say the identical thing he said earlier. Ill ask what he is thinking, and question him over and over when i feel he has ...
- Fri Dec 24, 2004 9:25 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: SCARS - idea on getting rid of them...
- Replies: 2
- Views: 159
some people want to get rid of their scars because the dont want the physical proof of what has happened to them, they dont want to see their past pain on their arms etc everyday. It could make them worse. Some people find reducing the obvious of the scars gives then a new found confidence. Theres v...
- Mon Dec 13, 2004 6:13 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: sad and helpless
- Replies: 2
- Views: 84
Hello there, all i can say is i relate, I suffer from anxiety disorders and depresion, due to deaths, and SA etc, and it is a horrible thing to live with, you will feel, as i do, that you cant live like you aught to. You say your not being treated, may i suggest, you speak to your DR about a temp me...
- Fri Dec 10, 2004 11:25 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: What does ittles/inner children mean?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 163
- Fri Dec 10, 2004 11:23 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: What does ittles/inner children mean?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 163
- Tue Dec 07, 2004 3:28 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: I'm new - hurting loved ones
- Replies: 6
- Views: 253
i tottally understand what your saying, as with my BF were always together and so he gets it all, i used to physically abuse him and verbally coz i had no control. i hardly attack him now as i am gaining trust in him, but sometimes i still go off on one. i see what you mean, you just want an instant...
- Mon Dec 06, 2004 3:40 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: I'm new - hurting loved ones
- Replies: 6
- Views: 253
you need to ask yourself why you do it infront of him, my BF takes everything away when i get depressed/anxious, like my meds, and forces me to give up what ever i feel hurting myself with, would you feel better if he forced you to stop, as youd see how much he cares? telling him how youd like to be...
- Thu Dec 02, 2004 4:58 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: anxiety and depression
- Replies: 14
- Views: 789
unfortunatly im on the max of my Ad's so i nd to start learning how to manage my anxiety. My bf tried to help more by telling me my world isnt the real thing and he is human just like everyone etc, you know CBT stuff, and i couldnt live with it, knowing that my anxieties are there and iv altered my ...
- Thu Dec 02, 2004 4:51 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: i used to take *DP* and now....HELP
- Replies: 3
- Views: 116
as u r a recovering self-harmer it will still take time to acknowledge your achievement. With the eating issues it will feel as if youve gone now where, i know how hard it is to batle an ED, but it takes confidence and maybe counselling to gain an understanding of why you do it and how to cope. Life...
- Thu Dec 02, 2004 4:39 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: wondering about diagnosis... *si and ed*
- Replies: 4
- Views: 146
- Thu Dec 02, 2004 4:33 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: sexual abuse...?
- Replies: 5
- Views: 294
it is sexual abuse as he did things you didnt want him to do! It is normal to scared or the sight of a penis and to feel discusted by men. Iv had 2major sexual assualts and im so scared of men and i then hold down a relationship of nearly 2years and am scared of my bF touching me and doing things be...
- Thu Dec 02, 2004 4:26 pm
- Forum: coping
- Topic: How do u want help??
- Replies: 12
- Views: 472
it does make sense, coz therapy espesh CBT is no walk in the park and alot are scared to commit becasue of how much you have to be faced with to fight, its v.scarey, im really scared, i have my assesment next wek! for which therapy i should have but, they will say you need to be in a psychological s...