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very much in agreement with plantt and cat here. i'm curious as to why people who just shoot down every coping suggestion without even giving it a chance, and people who pick apart advice trying to find fault with it even bother coming to the coping forum in the first place :-? what is it you actual...

i think this is going to work alot better

they don't card people in ARC. It is open to anyone who wants to go in there. i appreciate this is true, but from what i've seen arc is a pretty close-knit little community. i can't help that feel if arc suddenly became an unoffical "non-teenager board", and started getting heaps more traffic becau...

i must say i'm liking this idea much more than the other recently proposed boards, but that's purely for selfish reasons, i feel this could be a board where i'd actually belong.

i'm normally against the idea of further subdivisions.

very much in agreement with dan's first post. seriously, the board is so huge nowadays, that it's near impossible to be an active member on every board like i used to be, and its impossible to keep up with everything. i don't think we need any more subdivisions. this is a self-injury forum. there ar...

sometimes when i click 'submit' the page freezes, so i press 'back' to try submitting my post again and when i do all my text has gone. that's pretty annoying too :omad: if that happens too many times in one night i end up typing my replies in MS word first and then pasting them into BUS once i'm fi...

it's happened to me a couple of times this week too...

please don't make me do it any more.
it repulses me... i can't do it.
please just don't make me do it any more.
i love you but..... no.
no no no no no

wow.... thankyou deb,
that actually works!

that happens for me a good 99% of the time too

*occasionally* it works though, but only very rarely. so keep trying

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i'm guessing the sender deleted them from their outbox???

because it's possible to *unsend* PMs by deleting them from your outbox, so long as the person you're sending it to hasn't picked it up yet.

but in such a case the email notification service *won't* unsend your notification

there's nothing you can do about it i'm afraid. it annoys me too :-? it happens when people post things like this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! but with fifty thousand more exclamation marks without any spaces :roll: it also happens to a lesser extent when people post l...

most bizarre!
good to know it wasn't just me though

didn't work for me

i didn't because i didn't really have much of a valid reason for the trigger and i didn't much feel like explaining to my boyfriend that i had cut for no good reason

i get this all the time, no matter *whose* posts i am trying to view, or *whatever* i search for

... because the last time i *did* self harm it upset my bf so much that he cried. and i don't want to hurt anyone else but *me* through my actions.

highlight the text you want to quote, and copy and paste it into your own reply. then highlight it again, and click on the quote button up top ^ this will add what are called quote tags either side of the text. or you can just add these in yourself by typing them. if you want to include who *said* t...

i get green padlocks with my board theme :) its because the thread in question had been updated since your last visit to the forum, or in this case it had been *locked* since your last visit. then it would have changed to grey when you either *read* the topic, or refreshed the forum page (i think) t...