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by TainTeD Xx gRAcE
Mon Jul 31, 2006 8:03 am
Forum: administrivia and technical support
Topic: Common BUS Abbreviations (Spoilers) And What They Mean
Replies: 16
Views: 1832

*no irl* = Requests that anyone who knows the poster in real life (outside of the online universe) does not read thier post




I have been wondering for TWO YEARS what that meant.

Sigh.
by TainTeD Xx gRAcE
Tue Jul 25, 2006 3:11 am
Forum: coping
Topic: coping patch
Replies: 28
Views: 3221

forget me said: i like to make crazy all over the place pictures, with writing and doodling, mostly, just taking random phrases that come into my head and writing them, or taking random feelings and drawing them. what comes out is an all over the place picture thing, with pictures and words. it hel...
by TainTeD Xx gRAcE
Tue Jul 25, 2006 3:03 am
Forum: coping
Topic: coping patch
Replies: 28
Views: 3221

forget me said: i like to make crazy all over the place pictures, with writing and doodling, mostly, just taking random phrases that come into my head and writing them, or taking random feelings and drawing them. what comes out is an all over the place picture thing, with pictures and words. it hel...
by TainTeD Xx gRAcE
Tue Jul 25, 2006 2:26 am
Forum: coping
Topic: help me help my daughter
Replies: 17
Views: 882

Wow.

I am not sure what to say.

I have been a cutter for four years. It is hard to imagine a parent as supportive as you, because mine is definitely not. Thank you for understanding your daughter and not being judgemental.
by TainTeD Xx gRAcE
Fri Apr 28, 2006 9:44 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Books!
Replies: 62
Views: 3386

Ive recently read three books by Jodi Picoult and i really like them as i found them really easy to read and books i didnt want to put down. I am in the middle of My Sisters Keeper right now, and it's amazing. I love her at this point because I just got the book yesterday and have read over half of...
by TainTeD Xx gRAcE
Wed Mar 01, 2006 9:46 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: does this count??
Replies: 3
Views: 157

If you even have to ask yourself the question on whether it was self harm or not, I think you know the answer. You didn't ruin your 9 months, youstill have them. You can have 9 more and it will be a year and a half with only a slip. Slips are okay. They will happen no matter what.... Be Safe and don...
by TainTeD Xx gRAcE
Wed Mar 01, 2006 9:43 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: rubber bands as coping tools
Replies: 11
Views: 519

My problem is, snappoing it just once or twice doesn't do anything for me. I have to snap it until is bruises or bleeds, so technically it's the same thing. Sure it works, not as well,but it is still pain. Plus, at least for me, it's way easier to get away with in public, so it is actually more read...
by TainTeD Xx gRAcE
Sun Feb 05, 2006 8:10 am
Forum: coping
Topic: rubber bands as coping tools
Replies: 11
Views: 519

rubber bands as coping tools

all of us have heard of the idea of snapping a rubber band on our wrists to stop us from cutting.... or at least for lessening the urge... but for me... i think it does just as much harm as the cutting. Not only does it leave welts... it bruises... and it has also bled before...is this really any be...
by TainTeD Xx gRAcE
Thu Dec 22, 2005 8:15 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Another Emergency Box Post
Replies: 10
Views: 562

Another Emergency Box Post

I made myself an emergency box. It's not real big, about 7" x 7", maybe a tad bigger. I already put a picture of me and my really good friend, and a list of coping strategies and I am having a few of my good friends write me a letter that i can put in there and only open it when i have an urge, but ...
by TainTeD Xx gRAcE
Sat Dec 03, 2005 10:27 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: How do you feel about your scars?
Replies: 113
Views: 8521

Sometimes I like them, sometimes I don't. Just recently my work found out about me and my best friend, as well as another girl who all cut, so now I am way more self conscious about it, because they all know. I always wear long sleeves under my work shirt... and right now that's okay, because it's c...
by TainTeD Xx gRAcE
Tue Jun 28, 2005 3:21 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Is not hiding scars/marks wrong?
Replies: 55
Views: 3261

I don't hide my sacrs or new cuts anymore... I don't care how they make other people feel. if they ask about them though, i lie. Because I don't wnat my mom to find out again. I never hide them at home and they aren't noticed.
by TainTeD Xx gRAcE
Sat Jun 04, 2005 8:53 am
Forum: coping
Topic: is THIS si? *SI trigs
Replies: 5
Views: 355

i think anything behavior that you have to ask whether it is si or not, is si. if there is any doubt that its not, it probably is all the same.
by TainTeD Xx gRAcE
Mon Jun 07, 2004 7:37 am
Forum: coping
Topic: instead of cutting....
Replies: 4
Views: 317

SI * * * * * * * * * * * We all do SI for different reasons. But even I myself, SI for different reasons at different times. Sometimes it might be for the pain, some days it may be to carve a word, somedays it may be because I need the blood, or even just to destroy something. Sometimes I'm so upset...
by TainTeD Xx gRAcE
Tue Feb 03, 2004 3:29 am
Forum: coping
Topic: How Can I help My 14 Year Old Daughter with SI
Replies: 10
Views: 935

I have gone through having to tell my mom that I si, and I tell you what, it is an extremely hard thing to go through. And ever since my mom told me to stop, I have wanted to do it more than ever because I feel as if I'm a burden to her. Give her space, si'ing is something that she shouldn't have to...