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I'm pretty sure this has been posted before, but the song I most relate to about SI is an Indigo Girls song called "Blood and Fire" "Blood And Fire" I have spent nights with matches and knives, Leaning over ledges, only two flights up. Cutting my heart, burning my soul. Nothing left to hold, Nothing...

I was getting this message nearly all night (5 - 6 hours) tonight:

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Is there anything I can do about it when it happens, or do I just have to be patient and wait til something (whaterever the something is) sorts itself out?

View unread posts View your posts View unanswered posts I hardly use them, so I don't know if they changed or not :-? maybe 'unread posts' is the same as posts since last visit?? Yes, clicking on "unread posts" takes you to a summary of the posts made since the last visit ........ I forget if that'...

If you want to send a report to a mod, you click on the exclamation mark (it's just a shortcut to the "write a report" found at the top of the page)













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:) Thanks Nona - it's really helping to be able to share this stuff with someone. (cus sometimes I get so lost in my thoughts and try to work everything out by myself that she gets left by the wayside) I can relate to this so much .......... my T often reminds me to not shut her out and leave her be...

What she normally does to help me come back is to give me her hand and to make sure that I can feel it and to keep checking that I can still feel her hand and stuff. That helps cus when I'm drifting, her checking reminds me that she's there and I'm not (so to speak; apologies if this is garbage, I'...

Thanks Katja, -Kel-, heartonmysleave & collide for your replies. :) I find writing things out for my T to read useful - I usually email things to her or I bring it with me to the session. I just wish I could find the words to speak aloud to her and not shut down all the time. I mean, I know at least...

I always get really stuck in T - I have so much I would like to say, and I can even picture in my head how I can say it, but when I get there, I shut down - my mind goes blank and I feel numb. My main problem, though, is that I also dissociate a lot in T - my T and I have been able to work out that ...

balletomane wrote:ah, sorry to repeat what the others said. I am a slow poster so Jamie and mindpoison beat me to it.

good luck.

me too - you all beat me to it while I was typing .......... I didn't realise I was that slow

I know hard it is ........... reading this sounds just like me with my T, as in I find it so hard to verbalise things with her and I just shut down, even though there is a part of me silently screaming inside all the things I really want to be able to say. Luckily for me, my T understands and accept...

The overlapping text thing happens to me too (& I use safari as well).

I'm using subsilver, which is what I've always used, but it's only been happening recently - & I don't know why it wouldn't have happened before if it was a problem with safari.

Yeah, me too ........... although I just know I've missed clocks somewhere. But my times I had to change, in order of importane were my wrist watch, was first followed by my alarm clock was first, then my computer clock and finally BUS :) (in my profile - which I made one less than it was currently)...

yep ...........it's singing to me too.
it was really bugging me ......... until i finally remembered i could mute my sound (i'm a litle slow sometimes )

Just wanted to say, me too - whenever I go to page 2 after a search of someone's posts.
I thought it was just me or my computer. ............ or it was telling me subtly that I should stop "stalking" people
I've noticed it happening for about a week or so, I think.