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by shiny
Sat Apr 07, 2018 1:52 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Things Left Unsaid v.7
Replies: 53
Views: 40936

Re: Things Left Unsaid v.3

what you just said seemed to be internalised abuse and saying it like that made me feel uncomfortable. i am happy that you are starting to recognise our parents did screw you up, that it isn't your own fault, but i'm also really sad that you are realising the amount of pain and suffering that it cau...
by shiny
Sat Jan 13, 2018 8:02 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Questions to ask yourself before or after si
Replies: 0
Views: 4381

Questions to ask yourself before or after si

Before -------- * how will this situation or feeling change if i hurt myself? * what will hurting myself bring to the situation? what will it take away from the situation? * how do i want to feel about this in the long run? is hurting myself likely to get me closer to or farther away from feeling th...
by shiny
Fri Dec 29, 2017 5:07 am
Forum: coping
Topic: coping list
Replies: 0
Views: 4452

Re: coping list

there might be errors in there, but i've copied a version: Complete BUS coping list Things to do before the urge hits  Keeping a tally. If you tend to have decent runs of not si-ing, then fail and do it, do a tally. Write ``days I self injured'' in one column, and ``days I didn't'' in the other. At...
by shiny
Mon Dec 04, 2017 12:55 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Nest thread
Replies: 4
Views: 5328

Re: Nest thread

you mentioned fluffy things so i need to leave these here.
https://i.imgur.com/NI14eds.gifv