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by labbaw
Sat Mar 01, 2008 8:41 pm
Forum: before and after
Topic: After
Replies: 0
Views: 101

After

Questions to Answer After A Slip slips are chances to learn. you figure out what stresses are still too hard for you and you can work on how you'll deal with them next time you run into them. so instead of beating yourself up, take action. have you taken care of your physical wounds? if not, go do ...
by labbaw
Mon Feb 04, 2008 10:25 pm
Forum: before and after
Topic: After
Replies: 2
Views: 197

Hi Little Bear Cub,

Yes I called the person covering for my therapist. And I'm waiting for him to call me back. That should help me I hope. Thanks for caring and for posting.

Liisa
by labbaw
Mon Feb 04, 2008 10:14 am
Forum: before and after
Topic: After
Replies: 2
Views: 197

After

Questions to Answer After A Slip slips are chances to learn. you figure out what stresses are still too hard for you and you can work on how you'll deal with them next time you run into them. so instead of beating yourself up, take action. have you taken care of your physical wounds? if not, go do ...
by labbaw
Sun Feb 03, 2008 6:34 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Right Now I Feel... Version 2.0
Replies: 4409
Views: 215595

I feel really lonely and scared and very sad.
by labbaw
Sat Feb 02, 2008 9:01 am
Forum: before and after
Topic: Before
Replies: 0
Views: 98

Before

Before You Self-Harm write down the shadow that's hiding behind the urge. look at it. ask yourself: how will this situation or feeling change if i hurt myself? I think I will feel better, less anxious but I will also feel guilty what will hurting myself bring to the situation? what will it take awa...
by labbaw
Sat Nov 10, 2007 7:26 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Right Now I Feel... Version 2.0
Replies: 4409
Views: 215595

Lonely, tired, irritable, needy and withdrawn all at the same time. I definitely need to pamper myself.
by labbaw
Sat Nov 10, 2007 7:22 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Strike Back of Secrets! [The Secrets Thread - Read 1st Post]
Replies: 1638
Views: 101727

I'm scared that I'm always going to be on Disability and never amount to anything, never accomplish anything. I feel like a failure.
by labbaw
Sat Nov 10, 2007 7:14 am
Forum: coping
Topic: last time i wanted to si, i didn't because.......
Replies: 1252
Views: 77553

The last time I wanted to self-injure I didn't because of the consequences. My therapist says I will have to go back and live in residential treatment if I do cut again. I don't want that because currently I'm living happily with my boyfriend. I also know that if I do start, it will be hard to stop ...
by labbaw
Wed Aug 01, 2007 5:55 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Lexapro?
Replies: 10
Views: 429

I've been on Lexapro for a year now and it's helped me so much. I've actually stayed out of the hospital for a significant period of time (quite a feat for me)...I don't know that it's actually helped with cutting urges though. Maybe...I do cut less. I haven't cut in 3 months. But that could be due ...
by labbaw
Tue Jul 31, 2007 7:06 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: A coping skill
Replies: 6
Views: 412

A coping skill

I don't know if anyone has tried this, but I made 3x5 cards and on each card I put a coping skill on it. I made about 50 of these. For example, some of them say "take a shower", "go for a walk", "write a letter to an old friend", "list 10 things that I'm grateful for", and so on. Then when I'm in cr...
by labbaw
Tue Jul 31, 2007 6:28 am
Forum: coping
Topic: Right now I am coping
Replies: 1
Views: 61

Right now I am coping

I am coping with strong SI feelings. I am using the bus board and I am with my boyfriend who is keeping me company. I saw that someone on here has a coping box and I was thinking that was a good idea. I think I will do that too. Thanks for the good idea. Right now though, I need to just get through ...
by labbaw
Tue Jul 31, 2007 6:20 am
Forum: coping
Topic: What song describes how you're feeling?
Replies: 1417
Views: 91354

The Road to Nowhere by Ozzy Osbourne I was looking back on my life And all the things Ive done to me Im still looking for the answers Im still searching for the key Chorus The wreckage of my past keeps haunting me It just wont leave me alone I still find it all a mystery Could it be a dream? The roa...
by labbaw
Thu Jul 26, 2007 5:32 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Right Now I Feel... Version 2.0
Replies: 4409
Views: 215595

I feel tired and I feel completely and totally in love. I also feel a little bit down. As for the fatigue, I'm going to go back to bed pretty soon. And the feeling down part...well that's why I'm here.
by labbaw
Thu Jul 26, 2007 2:26 pm
Forum: coping
Topic: Does anyone else use DBT?
Replies: 5
Views: 254

Does anyone else use DBT?

I've been using DBT for a while and sometimes it helps and sometimes it doesn't. I think it depends on my willingness to use it at the time. My therapist has me using Diary Cards and I find these really helpful. Not with the self-harm urges but just with identifying my feelings. I'm lucky in that I ...