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Hi,

Badges still missing? Or missing again? What's up? Is it fixable?

Thanks,
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Thanks, STG. I thought I had screwed something up at my end.

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Help! Why has MY place disappeared from my Watched Topics? I'm active!

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Heya folks, :wavey: [GRRR!!! :omad: Spent a fair amount of time on a post which was eaten. Frustrating!!] Cariad--for what it's worth-- I go to NA (not big in my area--AA is much more tolerated :roll: , but...); I know about half a dozen people who have stopped/tried to stop smoking; the general fee...

Hi Dave, :wavey: I was pointed this way after requesting info re these badges, as I recently reached 3 years si-free (I know--*gasp!*) :blush: . :lgrnstar: I would like to suggest/request badges for all or a subset of the following: 1, 2, 3, etc. years si-free; multiple years si-free; multiple years...

Hi Spidey, everyone, :wavey: I'm having a pretty rough time right now. I want to stop all the emotional shit I'm going through and just numb out... I have gotten clean through NA. I really have found the whole program invaluable, and though I'm far from perfect in working it, I keep it up because I ...

Hi all, :wavey: I'm going to introduce myself the easy way by answering Electric Prophet's questions. :wink: Are there any support groups in your area? like NA or AA? Sometimes the 12-step approach works. Your mileage may vary on that. I was given a choice between going to NA or being turned in; I c...

I'm completely off alcohol 6 days now. god I am getting so angry and fighting so hard to keep of it. I am with my family now, so they are a big help, I want to do this, but when I start feeling like this , I always give in. I know it will pass Angel :( Hi Angel, Just a thought: instead of "I always...

Before: Before You Self-Harm write down the shadow that's hiding behind the urge. look at it. ask yourself: how will this situation or feeling change if i hurt myself? Situation won't change. Feeling will be relieved. what will hurting myself bring to the situation? what will it take away from the s...

Pretty damn close.

How old are both of you, how long have you been si-ing, and what is your preferred method (very generally) ?
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I second that, as I've wondered.
Balletomane, how about that one? The location of the emphasis could change your name from sounding graceful to being akin to a deadly poison. vs.
your fan,
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Hiya, If people had been in the room, it would have depended on circumstances. I've si'd while ip and required to stay in the dayroom, but keeping it from everyone else for as long as possible. So I don't si while someone's watching me do it, but I've done it with other people around. As far as bein...

My slip was a day and night of a morphine high after 2 sessions dealing with my husband's abuse. have you taken care of your physical wounds? if not, go do that now. we'll wait. N/A what had happened just before? I finished a night of calling Crisis and PM-ing and Message-ing with friends online aft...

have you taken care of your physical wounds? if not, go do that now. we'll wait. not applicable what had happened just before? I posted in my place apologizing for being so thick-headed and "yes, but..." what were you thinking and feeling? miserable; feeling like a failure; wanting to cut; angry wit...

Hi. Sounds like you gave well-thought-out, responsible answers to the questions. I don't know you at this point, but I can offer perhaps a piece of humanity to this moment: I don't know if you have someone who loves you, but you probably do. Even if not, there are people who care, such as other buss...

mia said: You mentioned you went to a Chat? What Chat was that? How were people not helpful? What did you say and how do you think you can ask for help in a more effective way next time? What would help for people to say when you are in a crisis? >>>#bus Chat (for si-ers). people talked about their ...

swannie, i'm glad posting helped, even if only by taking up time before seeing your t. good for you for posting! you'll probably feel a lot better telling your t you wanted to si than telling her you just si'd. hope your appt went well. here's a hug: :1hug3: and another: :1hug: and one more: :1grhug...

sorry i didn't answer these this am==no time. slips are chances to learn. you figure out what stresses are still too hard for you and you can work on how you'll deal with them next time you run into them. so instead of beating yourself up, take action. have you taken care of your physical wounds? if...

thanks for reading, Seradjernie. just knowing i matter to someone helps.
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